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Q&A with Author Arthur Wooten

2012-01-30T10:55:00.000-05:00

As manypeople know, my blogs (like my life) cover many different topics. I havementioned the children’s book (Wise BearWilliam) my friend Arthur Wooten has written on here before, but reallywanted him to share what the experience of publishing a children’s book hasbeen like. I’m so glad he had the time to give us some insight into this world.

Welcome back to my blog, Arthur!I know this is your first children's book, but tell us your background inwriting/performing for children.

Arthur Wooten

When Ifirst arrived in NYC in 1975, hoping to make it in show biz and carrying mylittle valise full of all my worldly belongings and a pair of tap shoes (I kidyou not), the first show I landed was a children’s musical. It ran at theProvincetown Playhouse on MacDougal Street and it was called Dirtie Ferdie Comes Clean. Ferdie had tofight germs and disease and I was cast as his friend and hero, Lester TheLaundry Bag. Yes, they dressed me as a laundry bag. Actually, it was very cute,ran forever and was my first introduction to children’s theatre. Performing forchildren is tough. They are a brutal audience. If they love you, you’ll knowit. If they hate you, you’ll know it. If they question you, you’ll know it. Iremember during the run of the show, a kid sitting in the front row of amatinee performance screamed out to me, “Are you girl or a boy?”

Performing for children is such agreat look into what kids want. So when was William ‘born’ after that & what has been his journey?

Bud Santora

Itwasn’t until 1988 that I wrote my first children’s story and it was Wise Bear William. Teamed up with myillustrator, Bud Santora, from the very beginning, we created a giant black andwhite dummy book, landed an agent surprisingly quickly and she spent about ayear trying to sell the project to publishing houses. The tone of the book,more classic in storytelling with rich, saturated illustrations, was not theflavor of the year. It wasn’t the flavor of the next decade! But Bud and I knewwe had “something”. In 1992,Phylicia Rashad discovered the project, fell in love with it and optioned it asan animated feature film with music. It was shopped around Hollywood andended up at Paramount. Ultimately they did a “demographic” of the project andwe discovered once again that it just wasn't the right time for this type ofstory. 1995 atelevision producer entered the picture and optioned Wise Bear William but it never materialized. A coupleof years later, a literary agency discovered “William” and for about two yearsaggressively tried to market it as a book again, but they fell short. In themeantime, Bud and I had gone on to other projects and we put the project tosleep.

One can never say something was born overnight with you! You have really stayed with the project and how wonderful it found a life in 2011.

I'd say it was the success of my novels and with the world in a post 9/11 mindset and theUS in a very tentative state and clearly in a recession, Bud and Isensed this may be “William’s” time.It’s a story of patience, hope and integrity. It demonstrates that if you holdonto your beliefs and do good in the world, you’ll be rewarded. So we publishedWise Bear William: A New Beginning asa children’s picture book in December of 2011 and we’re both thrilled with theresults.

What were some challenges/differencesin publishing a children's book?

Ithought publishing my novels was a task but creating children’s books is a hugechallenge. Creating them to our standards. Bud works in “illustrator” and“photoshop” and has created luscious and intricate illustrations that are, aswe found, tricky to translate to publication, both as a book and eBook.

Tell us about the book version.

Withnovels, you format your manuscript into the required format, create thecover…and that’s about it. With a children’s picture book there are so manythings that can go awry. Bud could have created a “simpler” version of the bookbut a big part of what really makes the story work, is the way each page isliterally framed and behind the frames is a repeat “wallpaper” that is reallytricky to line up when printing. Color has to be perfect and type and qualityof paper plays a huge factor. Softcover versions, the paper tends to absorbmore of the ink, whereas hardcover is a glossier paper eliminating thatproblem. However, many publishing companies were hesitant to create hardcoverversions of our work because it’s a very expensive venture. “Wise Bear William” is available inhardcover – but by specialty order (meaning they can get one by contacting medirectly). The publishing company will not distribute him, I guess, fearingthey may not make their money back. I’m here to prove them wrong.

So many things we never think about in dealing with print. eBooks must be difficult forpicture books as well?

Can youspell “nightmare”? The bottom line is Kindle can’t support what we havecreated. Maybe that’s why we see so many children’s books, in print and eBook,with simple line drawings and little “vignettes”. But Bud and I had a visionand we stuck to it. We tried a million different ways but Kindle couldn’thandle it. However iBook could. And “William” looks glorious on iPads, iPhonesand iPods and is fantastic for parents traveling with their children. New specsare out from Kindle enabling viewing of full color children’s books with theirnew devices but still, the experience is limited because the Kindle itself isso small. I’m sure they will come up with a solution to compete with iBook.

It sounds as if Bud was always thereworking with you so images were in your head, but did you write the storyfirst?

Yes, Budwas working side-by-side with me on this project from day one. And that’s rare.Often, in traditional publishing, the house will pair up a writer with anillustrator and you’re stuck with whom you get. Bud and I worked off eachother: his illustrations and ideas influenced the manuscript, my ideas arereflected in the illustrations.

The real Blanket Bear

But thestory was there first. In fact, it’s based upon a stuffed toy I have calledBlanket Bear. Made from my Scottish grandfather’s World War I army blanket, Ioften wondered what memories must be woven into him. It was decided that thecharacter’s name would be changed to Wise Bear William but Blanket Bear doesappear in earlier stories of “William”. His characters name is changed to OldTeddy Tartan.

Having read the book, I love hearingthe back story on William! What differences do you see in writing forchildren?

It wasvery clear, during the editing and proofing phase, that writing for children isreally a challenge. I scoured the script, word by word, making sure everythingwas perfect. Although “William” is few pages in length, it’s a huge story. Andchildren hang onto every word you write. It had to be perfect. One wrong choiceand it could throw the entire tone and message off.

Have you found marketing to bedifferent from those of your adult novels?

It’s notreally different than marketing my novels. You just have to find your audience.And one of the most powerful ways of doing that is through “bloggers”. Powerfulbloggers. And some “mommies” out there are powerhouses! And with some research,you find the right magazines and publications to approach. But basically, forme, the formula is the same.

Will there be more adventures for WiseBear William?

Thereare ten books in the Wise Bear Williamseries. Wise Bear William: A NewBeginning is the last chapter in the series. The previous chapters lead upto this story and there’s the possibility we will start with the beginning one,First Night In The Attic and continuein a linear fashion or we may jump a bit. Bud and I are still meditating on it.

But weare also going to create a Halloween book and possibly some others based aroundholidays. There is a Christmas book already lined up. On my end, themanuscripts are done. For Bud, there is so much work involved. He needs moretime to catch up with me. And we’re hoping that Hollywood will come knockingagain. We both believe, and with the help of the success of the books, that themovie version, The Life And Times Of WiseBear William, will become a realization as well.

Such great information from a truly prolefic writer. Check out Arthur at www.arthurwooten.com or follow him on twitter at @ArthurWooten

Silence Full of Laughter

2012-01-29T21:13:00.002-05:00

Going to the theater is about escaping our everyday lives and getting lost for a few hours (or in the case of Silence! The Musical 90 minutes). Those that know me can attest to the fact I'm drawn to tragedy and angst on stage. But this weekend, the comedies I saw were just what the doctor ordered. From Priscilla on Saturday to Silence! on Sunday, it was a weekend full of laughs.

Yes, they have created a musical based on the much loved film The Silence of the Lambs...that's right, musical! Doing a parody of a work takes a lot of know-how and control. Like an SNL skit that goes too long, they can get old fast. But the creative team behind this show teetered on that line in a great way - keeping the audience engaged for all 90 minutes of the intermission-less play. 10 people play so many roles, you'll think you're watching an old Carol Burnett show. For those that know the movie well, you will laugh until your sides hurt from the way these actors (many of them from Broadway including David Garrison giving an awesome Anthony Hopkins as Hannibal (that many will remember from Married With Children). One reason this show works so well is the fact the music is catchy (even some great ballads) complete with a dream 'See You Next Tuesday' Ballet! Jon Kaplan & Al Kaplan have written a great score and Hunter Bell (from [title of show] fame) a clever book.

I've spent many weekends seeing those silly 11:30 pm shows that run at a NY cabaret that only cater to a certain clientele. This show surpassed those: yet still perform in an Off-OFF Broadway venue in the East Village, use very limited sets and props (but use them brilliantly), and has a very talented cast of people working their rears off! It truly demonstrates what New York Theater is about: diversity at its best. You can go uptown and spend hundreds of dollars on a flashy Broadway show when you are in the mood or find these wonderful (I'll use the word: "indie") small shows that have won awards (The Fringe Festival in 2005) and are entertaining audiences on a completely different level.

And sometimes - that's exactly what we want. As a composer who was in the BMI Musical Theater Workshop and spent time attempting to get musicals presented in NY, I applaud these creators who can not only get a show mounted - but then get a full downtown run even seven years after presenting at Fringe. And as an indie writer - I always want to support those people in whatever medium they are presenting in.

Kudos to all involved! I love seeing Deidre Goodwin (who has wowed audiences over and over in Chicago) dressed up like a lamb and giving a nod to that show she played numerous times as well as the lead Jenn Harris (who I've never seen) that had me rolling with every nuance of Jodie Foster that she made.

I never like to sit on the front row of a show, but this was well worth it: we were in the FBI seats! I say if you want a laugh and you know the movie where you can recite the lines; (and not easily offended by language or partial nudity) you're going to love it.

Check out the video on their website.

Response to Equality...getting better?

2012-01-28T21:00:00.000-05:00

Recently one can't turn on the television, open a newspaper, or launch a news website without seeing some talk about gay marriage. It seems to be a hot topic on everyone's tongue from activists to conservatives to politicians. I truly feel as if we're in the middle of a huge change in our country that one day we will look back on as a turning point in our history. But to get there, it takes people discussing it, forming views, and hopefully...changing a few as well.

Even reality TV gets in to it with the show "What Would You Do?" They want to see how people in America react to so many different situations and many times, it is something gay-themed. From a gay service man returning from overseas to a man proposing to another. That one (that just aired) really was amazing in that the 15 strangers they 'tested', only ONE showed any annoyance to the gay proposal. Others seemed happy for the couple (taking photos, applauding) or at least stating they have a right to the same happiness.

Today I saw "Priscilla Queen of the Desert" on Broadway again. (I'm happy to report that I enjoyed it even more this time and felt the leads have grown into an incredible ensemble of 'family'.) For those that do not know, it is about three drag queens that head across Australia so that one can go and see his son. (Yes son - this was based on a movie from the 90s when gay and father were not said in the same sentence as much as we hear in 2012.) What really got to me today (especially for a matinee audience which historically is always older people), was the response of the crowd to not only enjoying the show, but the tender moments as well. I actually witnessed an older gentleman across the aisle from me wiping away tears when the father/son had a poignant scene.

Are we as a society becoming more understanding? Do these moments ring true to people or is it because it's on stage or in a movie that it can affect people? I hope that it really is more people are beginning to see that everyone deserves happiness. Gay or straight: it doesn't matter. Obviously straight people (at least Hollywood) are not showing us that they know how to handle marriage. If its about the sanctity, then perhaps people should not be able to toss marriage aside so lightly. But I hope as the witnesses on ABC's TV show to the gay proposal or the tourists who are taking in Broadway shows see a glimpse into a world they may not know - perhaps they'll see it's really not that different. My civil union partner and I sit on the sofa, watch TV, play Words with Friends on our computers, and live life just like our heterosexual counterparts.

The Priscilla cast sings it at every show:

Whatever we deny or embrace for worse or for better,

We belong, we belong, we belong together.

So true.

Kreativ Blogger Award

2012-01-27T18:42:00.001-05:00

It seems just at the time when you may be feeling overwhelmed or need a pick me up, the universe will shine down in unusual ways. Today it came via a tweet saying I had been nominated for a Kreativ Blogger award by @write_hook. Otherwise known as Scott Morgan, he is an excellent author, blogger, editor and all around - very cool guy (that I've had the privilege of meeting beyond the virtual world of twitter). I appreciate him thinking of me to honor me with this award...just to know someone finds my blog useful/informative/or good for a laugh is okay by me!

Part of being nominated means there are some things you have to do. 1) Share ten random things readers may not know about you and 2) nominate 6 others for the award.

This is hard for me because my life is such an open book, but here we go with random things:
1) One of my first jobs in NYC was cleaning apartments and office buildings. (The strange part was, someone else was cleaning my own apartment...try and make sense of that one!)
2) I once spent over two hours stalking Barbra Streisand in Central Park. (It paid off: she had a 30 second conversation with me.)
3) I hate being out of control...for that reason, you'll never find me on a water slide in one of those water parks. (Well, I also hit my head on one back in 1990...so that may have something to do with it as well.)
4) My freshman year of high school, I was one of the few that took the challenge to eat dinner blind-folded to see what Helen Keller went through. (Okay...so I was a kiss-up with the teachers too...but I did want to see what it would be like to be blind.)
5) I've always proudly called myself a PC - from the PC/MAC commercial wars...but Apple has invaded my home through iPhone, iPad (and now the Macbook Pro that I'm typing this on) - not sure I can still say PC.
6) I completely suck at math. It was the bane of my existence through school and I still use my fingers to count. (Is that sharing too much?)
7) I was once attacked by a mob of screaming kids and parents on Easter weekend making me feel like Jesus. (I suppose I should also say I was dressed as a Ninja Turtle, had just completed a show and parents were screaming at their kids to 'touch him!' towards the man in the green suit.)
8) When I was a child, I used to drink the pickle juice out of the jar in the fridge when no one was looking. (Let's call that a precursor to my adult years when I now drink olive juice...mixed with vodka of course for a nice dirty martini.)
9) I hate shopping. (I know, I know - as a gay man I'm supposed to enjoy it: but as my sister says "I didn't get THAT gene or the one that says I'm good at decorating.")
10) I can still recall the stairwell at the World Trade Center in NYC as I walked down 98 floors during the '93 bombing (two weeks after I had started a part-time job there: part time that led to a 13 year career.)

I nominate the following people for this award:
1) Arthur Wooten - @arthurwooten Arthur was one of the first authors I met on twitter (after seeing his name everywhere) whose writing I have devoured. He is so helpful, believes in supporting other authors, and is an amazing writer! (He also came to my debut novel book launch in NYC so we could meet in person!)
2) Traci Ford - @GSand1804 Traci is someone I know in real life and not just online. But what I love about her blogging is that she covers so many different topics and is not afraid to speak her mind. I so admire that.
3) Carey Parrish @careyparrish Carey is a twitter author I met through a string of others who I instantly took a liking to. Not only is his writing delightful, but his blogs and interviews of other authors are truly eye-opening and informative while making people feel so comfortable. A great guy to follow.
4) Alina Oswald @ANO07 Alina was is a writer and a photographer I met on twitter who I noticed kept re-tweeting my tweets. Eventually we started 'talking' more and I found her to be such a kind, cool, supportive person. (You must read her new biography!)
5) Jack Andrew Urquhart @JackAUrquhart Jack is an incredible storyteller, wonderful supporter on twitter, and a blogger who covers so many subjects. Definitely worth the follow!
6) Kergan Edwards-Stout @EdwardsStout Kergan is the most recent twitter friend I've made, but we made an instant connection through our debut novels' and then our similarities in life. A very giving person who understands what a platform is and how to use social media.

Identity Crisis

2012-01-24T14:11:00.000-05:00

Do you ever notice those people in your life that you can't quite figure what image they are trying to portray? Don't get me wrong. We all change personas based on who we are with - but those that are trapped in 'college time' (where one is supposed to decide who they are going to be)? Fighting in themselves to create an identity. I see it around us - on television, in the news. Famous people that lose weight but have been known for being big have to completely switch gears. Now their platform is all about weight loss (and I worry for when they gain it back, because this big guy knows it always comes back). Certain TV stations that can't seem to find their identity about who they want to be. Their programming is all over the place and they seem to have issues with finding an audience.

I was recently talking to a writer about how authors need to create an identity when they 'find their voice'. Fiction or non-fiction: they still have that which makes them who they are on the page. It took me a while (and sometimes I still don't see my own), but I can see it in others and people have pointed it out to me. Writers have to decide if they want to be sarcastic, informative, witty, care-free...you can see it in many blogs. (Think of some of your favorites now and you'll notice what pulls you in.) That voice that creates an engaging identity and demands you read them!

I marvel at those who have an "I don't give a flip" attitude and can say whatever they want. (A certain friend of mine can do it in her facebook updates and I literally L.O.L.) I tend to teeter on the edge in my writing. Naturally, writing fiction - my characters can speak however they feel - but Greg has to be sure and get his own voice heard when blogging, writing articles, narrative, etc.

So many people give advice on writing and how to handle themselves. I just give opinion. And that is: decide how you want others to perceive you and work towards enhancing that identity to work fully in your favor.

You'll be happier not having to be Jekyll and Hyde.

indie is NOT a bad Word

2012-01-19T13:34:00.000-05:00

Like most indie artists, I spend much time attempting to carve out my own tiny parcel of the artistic landscape. Whatever field you may be creating your vision, we all hope for that piece of the pie. Sure, we watch the names that rise to the top of the indie charts and wonder what their secret is. But we can't get lost in trying to be them, because we're not. We are ourselves.

There are so many things one does to build a platform. From blogging, to engaging in forum discussions, to following other artists in our fields. All with the dream of microscopic expansion. I recently was doing one of those very exercises of "Liking" other author's Facebook pages (in hope they return the love) and what I found was so many people exactly like me. Not one of them is Dan Brown or Jodi Picoult, but each doing (hopefully) what they love. Creating art in their own way and wanting to share it with others. (And finding time to retreat and write their next book while marketing the existing one.)

I heard an amazing radio interview the other morning with indie filmmaker/actor Edward Burns on the Morning Jolt with Larry Flick on Sirius Radio. He spoke of how many in his shoes hope to be discovered and pulled out of the indie world, but he never wanted that. He wanted to be the "Long Island Woody Allen" and make interesting films that showed a splice of his life. He also shared how technology continues to change the playing field. Indie musicians discovered they can do music in the basement and sell their work. Authors have been able to get their books into hands of readers at low cost thanks to eBooks. And filmmakers can shoot a film for much less now and then distribute it using On Demand television instead of praying that a screen in NYC and LA will show their film.

There is so much to be learned from reading how artists are doing what they can to make themselves heard...even if that sound is so small, only a handful are around to enjoy it. But be thankful for that handful. Friends and family talk. Bloggers give honest opinions. And before you know it, strangers are writing to you saying your art has touched them in a profound way.

As Jeff Bowen and Hunter Bell said in the hit musical [title of show] - which started as a small indie musical:

"I’d rather be nine people’s favorite thing

Than a hundred people’s ninth favorite thing."

Where Are You Most Still?

2012-01-16T14:09:00.000-05:00

Like most Americans, I have a tough time slowing down. I'm always going (if not physically, than mentally) and moving to the next 'thing'. I love to vacation, but even that takes me a few days to grow accustom to the pace. I've often said the place I feel most at peace is when I cross the bridge going onto Cape Cod and I feel my shoulders relax as I smell the sea air. Something about that place is able to calm me.

This past weekend I attended a book signing of Ilchi Lee for his book The Call of Sedona: Journey of the Heart. Already reading the book, I find myself somewhat jealous of people who can commune with nature and God in such a way they can simply - relax. (It's always seemed to me it's the Hollywood rich folks that can afford to relax.) But as I read his book, I find myself anticipating my spring trip to Sedona more and more. I haven't been there in over 20 years and I was so young at the time, I doubt those rocks were saying anything to me. But I believe this trip to be different. A town that closes down by 9:00 pm, that is truly about finding self and enjoying the beauty of the land - I really think I'm going to enjoy it.

I'm already one that has tried yoga. I believe in acupuncture and know it has helped the headaches I often get...and trust me; my body can scream out to me when it is stressed through headaches, stomach aches, mouth ulcers - you name it: stress punches me from the inside out. So giving myself over to the thought process behind his book shouldn't be too far of a reach for me.

Something in Lee's book beckons me to find that calmer self in the midst of the chaos. I think all things happen for a reason in our life...at a certain time. Maybe turning 43 in Sedona (yes, we'll be there for my birthday) is what I'm meant to experience. I'm sure there was a reason I set my upcoming book in Arizona (without even knowing why) - a book about a woman's personal journey to patch her life back together as she searches for her 'self' - but perhaps it will all become known to me in a few months.

Now I know what you're thinking: But I'm not going to turn into one of those people who get all out there and start wearing colors based on feelings and setting the furniture in my house a certain way (not that there is anything wrong with that) - but if I can discover a new way of finding peace and sanctuary...I'm all for it.

I look forward to sharing the trip with all when I blog about it in April. And I leave you with this...do you have that place you can retreat to and be still? (And if you don't have to leave your home to find it, my guess is you've already won.)

Observations From Social Media

2012-01-14T09:13:00.003-05:00

So I've been following writers, blogs, trends online for a while now and there are a few things I've noticed that I felt like sharing. (The following observations are those of Gregory G. Allen only and do not represent the entire writing world.)

There really is a fine line between annoying people about your book and gently reminding them your book is out there for them to snatch up.
There are some amazing people who love to pay it forward by sharing the word about someone else's book, interview, contest winning - truly wonderful ones who help others network beyond their own regular followers.
People that review or write critiques seem to want to talk about the book THEY would have written instead of the one they read. Now, this isn't true of everyone that writes reviews - but many seem to critique on what it's not rather than what it is.
You don't have to post something new on twitter everyday. It moves so quickly, your tweet quickly is hidden. Post the same one throughout the day at different times or better yet: re-tweet something of interest someone else has tweeted. (Another way to pay it forward.)
The indie versus traditional fight continues...and it will for time to come as more and more books find their way onto our eReaders. I'm grateful for both worlds (though I will admit: I read more indie books in 2011 than I did traditional published books). Why choose? Enjoy both.
Social media IS a great way to meet those editors and designers that indie authors need to utilize. You can find recommendations from others and really get to know those that could be potential people you plan to work with. A short list: Write Hook - Melanie Votaw - Marilyn Weishaar - Brion Sausser - Vedic Design
There are people who seem to want to play in the indie pool, but secretly want to 'escape'. In this new era of publishing, I'm certain a traditional publisher could offer me a great deal more marketing and getting a huge display of my books on the first table when you walk into Barnes & Noble - but I still prefer the smaller presses that take chances. Tradition has told me what I do isn't playing by the rules. I can't always write the book the big guns want that will sell tons of copies. But what I can do is attempt to touch lives with my quirky and twisted stories...and that's what I'll keep doing until readers have declared they've had enough of my cross-genre writing.

Awarding One's Work

2012-01-09T09:48:00.001-05:00

This past weekend, I found out that the 2011 Short List for the Indie Lit Awards came out and there was Well With My Soul on the list! It is always such a thrill to see your work - your baby - listed among the names of other authors (especially when you see books you've also read and admired). I am so thankful to all the readers who nominated my book for this - as that is how books are brought to the attention of this panel. And now the judges will read the list of books to decide on winners.

It made me start to think about awards and contests and I wanted to share my views. I'm well aware you talk to two different people - two different opinions will come, but here are mine.

Art is very subjective. But just like we send off our books to be reviewed, it is wonderful to know your work is being read/reviewed by a panel of judges who are looking for what they presume to 'rise to the top'. Just like a five star rating on Amazon, one judge may like your work and then another could be like a three star rating that makes its way onto your reviews - you know the ones that cut like a knife (but it does happen to every writer at some point: or at least most every writer). For me, having my book on a short-list or making it as a finalist (as I did with the USA "Best Books 2011" Awards) means there is potential for more readers to learn about who I am and possibly pick up the book and talk about it with their own friends.

Choosing which contest to get involved in is a whole other story. There are many: from short stories to poetry to novels. Many of them have entrance fees (and they are not always cheap). So plan wisely. Do your homework. And know that paying a fee does not constitute paying for a win. (Though society does show us paying gets you things. I hope readers understand that stars do not magically appear on the Hollywood walk-of-fame: the honorees pay for that 'honor'.)

That said. Here are a few suggestions I have:

Make a list of awards/contest that interest you and mark down their deadlines.
Make sure you are interested in the right contest for your book. (I'm not going to put my chick-lit novel into a Texas Westerns contest.) But you can do multiple categories with the same story.
Investigate the contest. Does everyone that is nominated become a finalist simply by entering? You can see a list of previous noms and finalists to get that information. (Personally, I prefer to stay clear of those as to not 'cheapen' the excitement of making it to a finalist list.)
Don't spend a fortune. Look for ones that do not have entrance fees. Yes the pool will be larger, but your wallet will be happier.

I realize some writers want to write and not be pulled into a competition type of atmosphere and I respect that. For me, I want to reach as many people as possible and if placing my name into this (often) national arena can help to do that - I'm all for it. I write because I enjoy it. I write because I want to affect and touch people. Having your name on that awards list is a great way to reach a new set of strangers to do that very thing.

Change Shoes and the Walk Feels the Same

2012-01-04T15:21:00.001-05:00

Last night I had two instances where "walking in someone else's shoes for a split moment" jumped out and punched me in the face. While watching an episode of the new Celebrity Wife Swap - I was instantly thrown into a place of disbelief that pastor Ted Haggard could be on there. (Both for being called a celebrity as well as the numerous jokes that can come to mind when thinking of this man wanting to swap mates.) But as I watched, I found myself saddened more and more by what I witnessed.

I've often said in interviews it was the "Ted Haggards" of the world that inspired me to write Well With My Soul, so I'll admit I have a clouded view of people's ability to live in the truth. And honestly - who am I to judge what is and what isn't his own personal truth. But when I look at the man through the huge grin he plasters across his face; I see pain. Perhaps that pain is from the shame the scandal brought to his family. Perhaps it is looking at his wife and kids daily and having a constant reminder of all he has lost. Or just maybe...maybe it is because he is unable to declare who he is and find peace from that. I'm not questioning the love he has for his wife...I believe he truly loves her. But if only society would allow people to have that love for themselves so they could be honest about who they are and not treat homosexuality as Satan tempting Eve in the garden.

His shoes; not mine.

I can hear people saying "we can live openly as gay men" - but can we? Is it 'safe' for everyone? As much as we see marriage equality making it's way into more states (Yay Hawaii and let's go Washington) - there are still a huge amount of Americans who would love to keep that tucked away in a closet and not be faced with it in their lives.

And the GOP Presidential hopefuls are right there in the thick of it - making same sex marriage an issue every chance they can get. Last night, when Rick Santorum made his speech in Iowa - I found myself planted firmly in his shoes as he quoted C.S. Lewis. "A Friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you've forgotten the words." he went on to say his best friend, his life mate who sings that song when he forgets the words is his wife. What a lovely sentiment. Truly. But is there any reason why he can't change those shoes just once and not understand that is the same love and feelings I have for my life mate? The one who has been by my side for almost 12 years now?

Why can't people stop for a moment and see there are many kinds of shoes in this huge closet we call Earth? Colors, sizes, flats and heels: variety is good. And if it makes you happy to walk in them - if you can find the peace you are looking for...it's not hurting anyone else.

Stop Before Out of Control

2012-01-03T12:23:00.000-05:00

I'm returning to the title of this blog.

Fat man attempting to shed pounds. Like so many others who use the first week in January to 'make a change' - I've decided it was time before I got to the size I was before. Last spring I started NutriSystem and was pleased with the results.

2011 - 2010

Though I had always said I lost 45 pounds (and at one point, I had) I actually crunched the numbers and found I lived around a 40 pound drop for most of the summer and into fall. And then fall meant book touring (which was eating and drinking in different towns) and all those holidays and 'poof' - ten pounds came back. So now as what I had dubbed my "skinny pants" (yes, in my world they were) are starting to pinch, I knew it was time. I refuse to pull out the fat pants: instead I placed my order last week and the box of packaged food arrived on my porch on Friday.

Instead of looking at the negative of putting pounds back on, I can still say I'm down 30 pounds from where I was at this point last year. But now, I'd love to join Janet Jackson and drop another 30 this year (before I arrive in Punta Cana for my sister's destination wedding in June). I think I can do it!

Jan 2012

The first week is always the hardest. My body wants to scream at me and cry out "WHY"??? It was used to eating what and when it wanted. And now, it's learning to be regimented again with small (tasty) meals. But there is a cost that comes with it. Your body says "oh yeah? take this!" And it acts out with headaches, dizziness and a multitude of other things I won't go in to. But at least I know, after the first few days - my body and I will once again remember what it was like and know we can survive on less food.

So here we go. It still ain't over 'til this fat guy is skinny...and he's got a nice bumpy road to head down now.

Do you Look Back or Forward?

2011-12-30T10:57:00.000-05:00

2011 comes to an end and people always use this time to stop and ponder. I have a tendency to always look forward, but sometimes I think it's important to look back on what you've accomplished or been through the previous year. There were many huge life-changing moments for me in 2011, but I want to look at a few smaller ones as I plan towards 2012.

I've never been an animal person (as I mentioned in a previous blog), but there I was at War Horse getting misty-eyed over a four-legged creature. Then the ASPCA commercials come on and the sad eyes are calling to me. I still don't think it's part of my resolution to run out and rescue a dog, but perhaps I'll be more caring when people speak of their own.
Math has never been my strong suit. As a matter of fact - I hate it. Someday I'll write a book where a character needs to know much about it and can research out the waaa-zooo. But doing year-end accounting on everything surrounding my book has taught me I need to improve in this area. Resolve to start 2012 by keeping better records from the start of the year.
For a planner, I'm shocked to admit there are things I just procrastinate on for one reason or another. I've been with my partner for over 11 years and if I were hit by a bus tomorrow - he'd still have no idea where certain things are located. Must create a spreadsheet for him with accounts/passwords/etc just so he knows all my secrets.
I've often labeled myself as a selfish person (ask my sister: I've said it for years). Yet there are numerous instances of me giving to others that I guess I haven't considered when calling myself out on being selfish. I learned something this year: I'm not good at receiving. I prefer to give. Can I still say I'm selfish? This year I found giving does not always need to have a monetary amount attached to it. Paying-it-forward became a slogan for me as I continue to learn new things in the world of publishing/marketing/etc and I really plan to continue that into 2012. (Oh...and I'll also try to get better when people give to me and not be all weird about it.)
2011 was a year I discovered a new way at making friends. Social media. Some would say "those are not real people. They are not your friends." But I strongly disagree. I love the friends in my life, but those people on FB & twitter have become so very important to me as well with their encouragement and support. I really hope I can make that kind of difference to 'web strangers' as well as I look towards the new year.
Balance. What a concept that has been in 2011. And one I must work on daily. Life must have it. Relationships need it to grow. And I have to continue to remind myself of it all the time so as not to become consumed by one thing. No promises I will master this in 2012, but will definitely try.

I don't want to create a long list of resolutions that I will simply not be able to get to, so instead I end with this. Be happy in 2012. Be healthy. Do something that makes you feel good. See a movie. Go to live theater. Read a book. Take a walk with a loved one. Live life and as politics and the economy throw curve balls at you, duck and attempt to not stress. We only get one go at this life. Why not enjoy!

Holiday Travel

2011-12-28T16:43:00.000-05:00

I just returned from a wonderful Christmas trip in Texas. It was a great visit filled with not only time spent with family and friends, but also a few book signings and speaking engagements thrown in. On this trip, a couple of things came to mind about travels and I just felt the need to share my list. Here they are in no particular order:

What is up with that priority lane when boarding an aircraft? Is that piece of carpet really that wonderful that only first class and certain people can walk on it?
For someone who has never had a love of animals - I found myself really drawn to my sister's small dog on this visit. Teaching this old 'dog' a new love.
Some airports actually still have smoking lounges...and one man that walked out said "there is no need to even smoke in that room; just walk in and breathe."
People from middle school (yes, that's 30 years ago for myself) truly ROCK and can find you on Facebook and surprise you by attending book signings. So grateful.
For those that say they don't like gays - I think they shouldn't be allowed to ask any male flight attendants on an airplane for anything. (You can deduct my reasoning on this one.)
My body needs a warmer climate. I hated thinking of returning to a Jersey winter after spending a week in Texas.
I have an amazing family and so many of them showed up at the library to listen to me talk for 45 minutes. Who would do that? (Thank you, family!)
Free WiFi on when flying usually has fine print somewhere. In this case, 30 minutes meant all together - even if you logged off.
Face time with your mother never seems to be enough time. So much going on during this trip, we didn't get our one-on-one. We'll hook up next in 5 months on a beach and we WILL get some alone time!
I hope that everyone reading my blog enjoyed their holidays as much as I did. Cheers to the new year ahead!

Thankful Can't Begin to Explain the Feeling

2011-12-18T09:37:00.000-05:00

In some ways, the past three weeks have been a blur and in others the most amazingly bright spot of my whole year in writing. To those that know I had a book released this year will find that statement hard to believe...and it is very difficult for a writer to chose between his children - but something truly wonderful has happened with Chicken Boy: The Amazing Adventures of a Super Hero with Autism that I never dreamed of happening.

This book is not even published and I have more people requesting it than have read my debut novel. The simplicity of the storytelling has touched so many. The need to share it with others to give a small insight into their own loved one with autism. The desire from people to get the book 'now' so they can begin to use it in classes. It has moved me beyond words.

I'm not sure MeeGenius knew what they had created when they envisioned this challenge. I'm sure to them it was a fun way to get people involved in choosing a children's book, but for me - it was an eye opener about the need of those very types of books for autism awareness. My own eyes have been opened in such a different way and no matter what happens going forward in this competition: I know this book must get into the hands of children across the country.

And I have so many people to thank. I've been calling them #TeamChickenBoy and they are a huge group of people that I wish I could thank each by name. I know there are so many that have created their own chain of the "telephone game" in getting others to vote for the story. Others have posted on every single autism/bullying/children's facebook page and forum you can think of. And still others have tweeted and reached far and wide to get this book seen all around the world (and I know that is true from where the comments have come from on the bottom page of the story). I can't tell you how grateful I am to each of you. I am so aware that it takes an army for any kind of success and from the bottom of my heart - I give thanks. And what success it has been! You all helped us climb that leader board until Chicken Boy took on a life of it's own - over 1900 votes in just three weeks!!

Though I have a background in children's theater I wasn't planning on writing a children's book at this point in my career. Natalie and I were just telling a story about her little brother. But the book was written, submitted to a few publishers and then I was told about this challenge...and off it went!

So on this final day of voting - I thank each and every one of you! Major players in the first round of this challenge. Major support in my life. And collectively, we ARE #TeamChickenBoy!

Bahcaaaaah!!!!!

The God Complex

2011-12-12T12:26:00.000-05:00

As one of my favorite shows comes to a close this season, the story line involving religion in Dexter this year really got me thinking. Religion plays a huge part in many people's lives. It can join people of like faith together and it can build walls between those that disagree. It can cause people to say they are acting in such a way due to their particular beliefs and others can use those beliefs to twist a message in the way they see fit.

I use themes of religion in my book Well With My Soul and some people have scoffed at the language used by some of the fervently religious characters I've created. Many people find it difficult to believe that someone listens so earnestly to what others say when they use the phrase "God told me to tell you..." - but as Dexter has proven: it happens. It happens when Jim Jones told people what 'God was telling him'. It happens when Lisa Ling recently did a documentary on faith healers on the OWN network. It happens when people are in dire need of something in their life and faith gets many, many people through tough times.

But it can also be used to by certain politicians and those in power to stir up emotions in people, to rally them together as some sort of battle cry. Religion is a powerful force that has been utilized throughout history for personal gain. My novel is but one story that shows how a man's ego can get in the way of God's message...and really be a message simply shared by man.

And when you get down to it, that can be true of so many different people who use God's name to get something accomplished - something they want to see happen. Because how many of us can claim to know for certain what God's plan is if we're only human? I for one know I falter and can't even pretend to tell you what God wants in your life.

I'm doing good enough working on my own.

The Home Stretch

2011-12-11T09:06:00.001-05:00

As we head into the final week of voting for the MeeGenuis Author Challenge, many things come to mind:

How amazing people have been - both friends and strangers - in becoming a huge, much-needed part of #TeamChickenBoy.
How wonderful it has been for my friend Donna as Gabe's classmates and other parents rallied around this book about autism in a way we never saw coming. His school and the people in Nutley are excited to know Radcliffe Elementary would benefit from a library of books (not to mention just how pleased they are over a book based on Gabe potentially being published).
How healthy competition can be a good thing (even when we sometimes question how others jump 400 votes over night...it only makes you work harder).
How ironic it was that when Donna and Gabe read the story, the one word he faltered on was 'autism'.
How much I've enjoyed thinking about my roots of writing for children.
How exciting it has been for Natalie as a 14 year old to know about her part in putting this story together and to watch her working online, sharing the link with others so they can vote.
How I've always thought of autism because of my godson, but never really 'thought' about making others aware. We go out in public and I see how people react to him - but I've never really considered what part each person can play in teaching awareness to others to not be fearful of an outburst. The noises made. The flapping of arms. There is nothing to be scared of with these precious children.
How much I'd love to see this book published so that all those people that have written such moving comments on the wall get a chance to read it and share it with others.

Thank you, all, for voting for this book. I can't say thank you enough. And please continue to share it with others this last week of voting!

As Chicken Boy says "Bahcaaaaah!"

One of my first children's musicals

Is Diversity Still Good?

2011-12-08T09:15:00.001-05:00

Diversity is a really great thing.

It fills my writing. It encompasses my group of friends. I love that people have different opinions about different subjects - when they can talk rationally about it and not get into finger pointing.

But sometimes, it is hard. Hard to keep your mouth closed (even when you may go against the grain of popular opinion). Those that follow this blog know I write about numerous topics and sometimes have a different take on something. Lately, I find myself feeling that way over some videos hitting the news.

I'm Christian, but I have friends of all different faiths. Rick Perry's new video truly riled me up, but not for the reason people assume. Yes, he blatantly called out gays in the military in his new 'strong' video, but it was what he wasn't saying that got to me. I think it takes a certain kind of person that can lead a varied group of people; no matter what their beliefs may be. This man doesn't appear to be "For the People, by the people" - but instead "for the people who believe as I believe and celebrate the same religion that I do." (Again, notice I said I'm Christian...what he proclaims to be as well.) This video feels so obviously slanted towards Christians only and leaves out any other religion in this country (that he wants to preside over). That truly makes me nervous when a president would not be able to separate their religious beliefs from the way they would govern.

On the flip side of the aisle is another video that really got to me. The one with Michelle Bachmann and the little boy. (Over 3 million hits on youtube) So many people rallied and lifted this boy up as some sort of gay activist and I've stayed quiet and not commented on the numerous posts I've seen on Facebook and the web. I saw him as a child that did not want to speak up and was pushed into speaking by his mother. Do I agree with the message? Absolutely. Do I agree with the way it was delivered? Not at all.

Diversity means being able to say the unpopular thing even in the middle of our own community, political party or religion. And just as people that agree with these videos have rights to speak out, so do those that find fault in them. It's what has always made our country such a great place to live. But the more diverse we become as a nation, the more it feels as if the threads are being pulled out of old glory until nothing will be left.

Diversity is a great thing.

If people know how to coexist among that diversity.

One Child: One Project Can Change a Life

2011-12-05T08:33:00.001-05:00

Something has happened to me the past week that I did not expect.

When I entered a contest to get my children's book published, I thought it was sort of cool - but I also knew I was busy promoting my novel and I never thought I'd have the time to devote to this story. Don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to make it seem as if I didn't care about it - because I always did. It was something my young friend Natalie and I believed in and we both have a huge love for her little brother. Gabe was the entire reason we wrote the story. Watching him, interacting with him, seeing how people react to him when we're out in public: autism awareness became even larger to me than it has been the ten years that little boy has been in my life. (About 8 of those with him being diagnosed.)

But then the MeeGenius Challenge started and I did what I knew to do: tell people on facebook and twitter about it. And then more and more people told their friends. And comments were being added to the bottom of the page where the story resides and I saw how this small story was affecting people...and it's not even a published book! I found by writing to my own friends how many of them know someone with autism or how it has affected them personally. And then it started to consume me. Not my need to win. My need to share this story. To get more people to know about it so they could vote and this book could get published - being available for other kids to know not to fear children with autism.

I've met more and more autism groups and individual people that are touched by it daily and have corresponded with them online. My friends and family are posting it with teachers and autism forums and my godson's mother checks the list all the time to see how the book is doing (I call them all #TeamChickenBoy) and suddenly - I realize the book must have a life well beyond this contest.

I wanted to blog now because I need my friends and facebook/twitter followers to understand if I come across pushy and sound like a broken record. It's not the same as Greg attempting to get people to buy his book. This is not about buying my book. This is about voting (clicking on a link) to make this story available to children down the road. Allowing it to get to the point that MeeGenius will see they must publish this story so that children and parents will be able to BUY the book and will read it for years to come; learning about autism from the point of view of a little boy who lives with it every day. And like those children that get one thing in their mind and begin to 'script' by saying it over and over...that's what I'm doing as I ask people to read the story and vote.

I hope beyond hope we are chosen for the next round of finals and the book will be illustrated. And if that happens: please forgive me now when there are three weeks that I will eat/sleep/breathe Chicken Boy: The Amazing Adventures of a Super Hero With Autism to do all that I can to get the book published. And I know that #TeamChickenBoy feel the exact same way and I appreciate each and everyone of you for all you are doing now...and will do then if needed. :-)

I started this saying something has happened to me. I realize this book/this process is so not about me. It is way larger than anything I could ever do. But it's been an amazing feeling that I've not known previously in my writing, directing, producing or acting life: and I'm so very honored to be experiencing it!

I end with some wonderful comments coming in from people about the bok: some I know and some that are strangers. If you haven't clicked on the link yet to vote: I really ask that you will.

"I'm an avid reader & researcher of autism and never have I been moved to tears. Never has a children's book touched me so profoundly or clearly explained the very special mind of autism. " - Kentucky
"This gives me a new glimpse into the young man who sits in front of me every Sunday in church. I know I will smile a different smile when I see him this next time because of the insights your story tells." - Texas
"Thanks for creating a story that will help lesson the fear of someone that may be different." - New York
"My 3 year old son was confirmed as being on the Autism Spectrum 2 weeks ago...he too was catching raindrops on his tongue today!" - London
"For all the little Chicken Boys out there...I have 2 chicken boys in my life that I love with all my heart!" - New Jersey

Movies Bring Back The Past

2011-12-04T15:35:00.001-05:00

Last night I finally got around to seeing the movie Super 8 that so many people have talked about...and I'm so glad that I stayed up to watch it. Not only was I reminded of the great Spielberg movies (ET, Close Encounters, Goonies) that I loved as a kid (obviously nodded towards with this film) - but I also thought the look of the film mixed with the acting of (especially) the two lead kids was wonderful! (And a great score used at the end!)

I was also taken back to my own childhood. There are many movies out there that capture the joy of being a tween, but this one hit it for me. That feeling of young blooming love. The unwavering friendships you create where you'll do anything for them. And in this case - a gang of creative kids making a movie! Completely made me think of directing the neighborhood kids in my own backyard plays. Early in the movie, the dad says he doesn't want his son wasting his summer doing 'the movie' with his friends. That line hit me and made me be so thankful for my parents. Not once growing up did they ever stifle any creativity I had. I was so lucky to be brought up how I was with parents who believed I could do anything! I thank my mom (and dad in heaven) for bringing me up the way they did. I know that had everything to do with me going for all that I do as an adult with such gusto.

And for those friends I had as a kid? Many of them are still part of my life thanks to the internet and Facebook and are still doing things for each other even as adults. And that 'young blooming love' ... she's still in my life too and we travel with our spouses all over the world having adventures as adults that we could only dream of as a kid.

Now how is that for 'super'??

Children's Books Aren't JUST for Children

2011-12-02T09:08:00.001-05:00

Many reading this blog do not know of my background in children's theater. I basically got my start doing theater 'for children by children'. I wrote and directed musicals in high school for a group in Texas. I moved to New York and worked with a local children's theater company in New Jersey (both performing and writing music for their shows). And I even got my equity card touring in a children's show that brought well known children's books to life. I think I've always been a grown-up kid and can still enjoy a well told story geared for the young at heart.

It's wonderful when you meet someone of a like mind that simply cannot be placed into one genre of writing. Arthur Wooten has been doing that for years: everything from novels to plays and now his first children's book. But this book has a long journey.

"William was first created as a children's book twenty years ago," Wooten told me. "But Hollywood found it and optioned it both as an animated feature and a television series. When neither paths materialized the project was put away until just recently. Now, I'm determined to give it the life it deserves and in the medium it was first intended."

Lucky for readers that Wooten has dusted it off and brought it back to life!

I often tell him he and I seem to have been on very similar paths in our lives moving to NYC as actors and both writing in multiple genres - only I remind him he's further ahead on the path in both age and volume of published books. (See, I'm a snotty kid at heart!)

I was very honored to be able to see an early copy of his book and I'm thrilled to recommend it to all reading my blog. Wise Bear William: A New Beginning is a beautifully illustrated children's book with an even more appealing message. William's name says it all as he gives sage advice to the other toys in the attic - eagerly awaiting to be 'chosen' by children. This story of patience, understanding, a giving spirit, and friendship may be told for the ears of a child, but Wooten has made it a lesson for all to hear. Taken at face value - it is a children's story that is perfect for people to buy as a holiday gift (and I do recommend to grab them up for those under-the-tree-gifts). But I can't help analyze beyond and see dynamics that can be found in circles of friends of many ages.

Wooten has created a vividly imaginative world of talking toys that transports us to another time and place with the luscious illustrations by Bud Santora. I absolutely love that this man that can deliver novels meant strictly for adult eyes can locate his inner child and craft a world of wonder for all to enjoy. (Classification of writers be gone!)

I hope this 'new beginning' is the start of a wonderful series of adventures for Wise Bear and his friends. You can get more information on the book at Arthur's website or ordering online at createspace marketplace and will be on Amazon and in stores soon!

How Long Will it Take?

2011-12-01T09:16:00.001-05:00

It's 2011 and the world is still dealing with HIV and AIDS. Decades have come and gone where doctors and scientist were certain they would have found a cure, yet it hasn't happened. People have gotten to the point of making it a manageable disease and can live with it - but others still die from it. Not everyone can afford the cocktail drugs used to stay alive. Not every country makes it a priority. And not everyone thinks about it. Yet on this day, this World AIDS Day - the news will bring it up again and people will be reminded it's still a part of the fabric of our lives.

It's been on my mind much lately and not just for this day. As an indie writer who has not only written my own book that deals with the 80s and 90s when the epidemic was at the onset, but as a reader it has shown itself in many books. Rick R. Reed has written a moving love story Caregiver where AIDS plays a prominent role in the story set in the 90s. I'm currently midway through reading author Kergan Edwards-Stout who has chosen that same period for his book Songs for the New Depression which vividly details what people were going through in the early days of AIDS. I've yet to read his book yet, but Don Carrel (another author I've met on twitter) has written about his own dealing with the disease for over 30 years now as he works to educate everyone about it in My Dream to Trample AIDS.

It excites me that while none of the writers knew the other was writing about this period in history, the stories were being told for a new generation who may be removed from that 'not-so-distant' past. Reminding people where we have come from in this epidemic. Allowing others of a certain age to relive it once again. And that is not a bad thing. People should be reminded of it from then as well as now. It's not over. A cure has not been found. But we have certainly been able to get to a place of living with and not only dying from.

To commemorate this day, I encourage people to remember those lost. Read one of the books mentioned here or another one you find. Watch a movie such as And The Band Played On or Long Time Companion. Celebrate those that are gone and cherish those that have a constant reminder of it in the form of daily medication. And think about what each of us can still do to be sure it never leaves the minds of those who are working towards awareness, treatment, and a cure.

I still pray we will see it in this lifetime.

Does It Take Much to Be Nice?

2011-11-29T11:56:00.001-05:00

"God Don't Like Ugly!"

I've always loved when I've heard someone say that to remind people to shape up and be a little nicer. I think we can all use that reminder now and again. I know I go through my 'ugly' phases when everything is bothering me (usually when driving down the road and someone cuts me off). I grew up a fairly religious person and attempt to subscribe to the 'do unto others' motto...not that I'm trying to buy favors from God. Just that I think doing a good deed now and again is a great way to live your life.

What really makes me happy is when something great happens to good people. There are too many examples of bad getting ahead in the world that when a story comes through on the news of the right person winning the lottery - I smile. More importantly, I love when those things happen closer to home. People I know that are amazing at helping others, paying-it-forward, giving back: and then you hear good news from them and I genuinely feel happiness for them. No jealousy of 'why couldn't I get that multi-million book deal' or anything else...glad they have been rewarded in such a way.

The past few days, people have said some amazing sentences to me which truly made me feel humbled, warm, special - and I'm sure it didn't take that much out of them to share a few words.

So I say: take a moment out of your busy day to hold that door an extra moment for the one behind you, let someone get in front of you in your car lane, or just a word of encouragement. Because if you don't wanna think in terms of what God thinks of ugly...there is always another great saying:

"Karma is a bitch."

Children's Book on Autism

2011-11-28T10:55:00.001-05:00

Voting has begun! The wonderful eBook publisher MeeGenius (publisher of great children's books) has started their challenge to find the next children's author. I mentioned in a blog two months ago that I had entered "Chicken Boy: The Amazing Adventures of a Super Hero with Autism" as a tribute to my godson Gabe who was diagnosed with autism when he was very young. His sister Natalie and I formed this story based on Gabe and wanted to share a book for kids - about a kid - told through the perspective of one very special boy that could let people into his 'world' in a different way.

Gabe Watching the Circus

Now we need the help of everyone to get the word out about the book. Voting for round 1 will continue until December 18th. Please click HERE and click the LIKE button to vote. (It seems as if you have to be connected to facebook in order to vote.) We can't wait to see what comes of this book and just hope to make it to the Finalist Round with YOUR help! (The finalist round will be January 31-February 21, 2012 and a winner will be announced by March 7.)

Autism is nothing to be afraid of and we hope with this book to encourage other children to not be fearful of that child in their class that may seem a little different than they are. Children with autism are just like every other kid. They want to play. They have incredible imaginations. They enjoy bugs, snakes, the children's museum, the circus, horseback riding, the beach...they just show their enjoyment in a different way. (And my little guy loves to wrestle with Greggy every Wednesday night after we return from our dinner at Friday's: chicken fingers, fries, ketchup and red velvet cake.)

And they can get to you like no one's business! When Gabe reaches over and grabs my hand to walk into the restaurant - my heart melts!

Thanks for voting! Natalie and I definitely thank you and I'm sure Gabe would thank you too!

Classifying a Writer

2011-11-25T09:52:00.001-05:00

I recently read an interesting blog where a certain author did not want to be called 'indie'. The term brought up thoughts of the Seattle music scene and that authors wanting to be 'edgy' have adopted the term.

I call myself a writer. I'm indie in that I do not have a huge company behind me marketing and promoting my book. While I don't think I'm necessarily 'edgy' - my work has been called raw, truthful, hard to read, gripping, emotional, heartbreaking.

It got me thinking about who I am as an author. I don't write in any particular genre so I can't easily be classified as an "X" type of writer. I did not go through an MFA in Creative Writing Program so I don't always play by the rules. I realize the importance of an editor because I'm well aware of my own limitations in writing. I also tend to go against the norm in some things that I write - walking to my own beat (if you will).

But those things that make me different make me who I am as a writer. They also push buttons of certain readers and reviewers and can really infuriate people who expect certain things when they open a book. A publisher once fell in love with the first half of a book I had written, but as soon as a twist came in to play - they could not get behind it for fear of alienating their readers. Others have praised my dialogue while some call it stilted and unrealistic. And then there was my non-fiction book about my half brother who died where I told the story through his words. I received both praise and criticism for this unconventional way of story telling.

I love the varied opinions a writer can receive for the same piece of work. It shows that everyone can be touched by the same thing in such different ways. It illustrates the great opinions we all have when we read, watch, visit, partake... And it shows me that I must be doing something right in what I produce as a writer; even when I'm rarely going to give the reader what they expect. There are people out there who enjoy to be challenged and made to think when reading. And I love that I can offer that to people, even when they can't agree on what they think or how it has affected them. But the greatest part is that it has affected them - and that is perfect for this 'indie' author.

What's Most Important

2011-11-23T08:04:00.001-05:00

Today is my husband's birthday. He hates his birthday and any reminder of aging. He really hates when I say we're entering midlife in our 40s (telling me that he plans to live past his 80s so this can't be midlife). But I thought it a great day to blog about him.

To anyone on the outside looking in, this has been 'the year of Greg' with so many things happening in my life from weight loss to book publication. And I know it is never easy to be the wind beneath someone's wings. (Unless Bette Midler is singing to you!) But for me, that's what Ant has been. There is absolutely no way I could have accomplished half of what I did this past year without his love and support...and what support it has been!

When we met eleven and a half years ago, he knew I 'dabbled' in acting - but I also had a full time corporate job. Then I started artistically running a theater company...and he was right there as I directed and produced shows (I even got him ON stage) and showing up to functions with the theater. Then I walked away from the corp job to manage an arts center and he said "okay, if it makes you happy." When I decided to really give the writing a try he would proudly tell friends with each short story published and as the novel came out last month - he traveled on my book tour with me - taking photos and showing major support.

Who does all of that?

Someone who is not selfish and is proud of their spouse and encouraging of that person's creative fulfillment. That's who. Someone who understands that relationships go through changes over the years as people can't remain the same two people that entered the relationship all those years ago. Someone who is confident in themselves, their own abilities, assured of who they are, not easily pushed to the background; someone who can be in a room of strangers and talk about anything and make those people feel important in what they are sharing with him. Someone who does amazing work every day as he administers treatments to the sick (all the time with a joke and a smile) and gets constant praise from patients about how wonderful he is or how he has helped a family member with such dignity in his job. Someone who understands it is okay to have separate interests (okay...his is bowling) and that couples do not need to do every single thing together. Someone who surprised a Texan when the Jersey boy gave him a ring and said he thought they should make it as official as the state of Jersey would allow. Someone who understands that marriage takes work, even when life is keeping you so busy from birthday-to-birthday and now and again you have to stop and 'reboot'. Someone who can roll with the punches and jabs that life throws at us and can communicate about what is bothering them before molehills become mountains that can't be climbed.

Someone like Anthony, that's who.

It's the day before Thanksgiving and I'm so thankful to have this wonderful man as my partner in life and wish him the happiest birthday (even though he hates for you all to know about it)! LaDear.

Few Tips on Promoting That Book

2011-11-21T10:12:00.001-05:00

Authors have a challenge when it comes to getting people interested in their work. It has been said that word-of-mouth sells books (and every author is thrilled when someone recommends their book to a friend), but an author still has to get that 'word' out there. So if you like something you read: tell a few people to give it a try.

Everyone would love to do the traditional book tour, but less and less stores will bring in an author that does not have instant recognition. My book has been out for six weeks and I've loved the small tour I was able to do and appreciate every single indie bookstore that allowed me in to talk about the book. Contact stores directly and offer to promote the event through press releases and social media if they will allow you to do a discussion or signing in their store. You may be surprised by those willing to take a chance on an unknown.

Blog tours have become the new 'black'. Taking to the internet is a great way to put yourself out there in front of strangers who could potentially make a connection to your book. Reviews and interviews on numerous sites gets your name and work in front of many new people. I strongly advise people really do homework before signing with a coordinator for a blog tour. The web is full of people offering this service, but some work harder than others. (My 1st blog tour had me mailing off numerous copies of my book for reviews and yet only one reviewer came through from that tour. Instead it was full of interviews that my coordinator would place all over the web. I'd suggest to cast your net wider by checking that the sites you tour are owned and operated by different people which will insure you hit a varied amount of readers. I obviously didn't do my due diligence and don't believe I got as much bang for my buck had I gone with someone else. Not to say the place I used is not one of the big ones, as it is and I really enjoyed my correspondence with the person who owns it. I think it comes down to the amount of work the coordinator in charge actually does as to how well your tour will go.)

Book giveaways. So many blogs and other websites such as goodreads.com loves to run a contest to give away a copy of your book. It doesn't cost you as the author much to do it and you can create a buzz around your book. (However, if someone can tell me how to get the 100s of names that signed up for the goodreads or those that have your book marked "To Read" to switch over to "Reading" - please let me know.)

Be prepared to work. And I do mean WORK to get your book known. Follow some other indie authors that you see popping up all over. They are obviously doing something right. Even if you have a publicist and an army of people working with your publisher, in the end - it is still your baby as the author. You need to be that proud parent showing those newborn photos to everyone you meet.

From the Inside Out: Mother & Son

2011-11-17T14:25:00.001-05:00

So They Say, byJack A. Urquhart, follows Southern-born Rex Fordham on a five-decades-long searchfor self-acceptance. The product of1950s conformism and self-repression, Rex sheds a burdensome past to become asuccessful architect, husband, and father; but when a same-sex affair and shatteringfamily loss end his marriage, Rex changes course to pursue life as a gay man—achoice that doesn't sit well with his mother, Baptist-to-the-bone, Inez, as abit of eavesdropping on a weekly telephone chat between mother and son reveals:

Inez (self-righteously indignant): Well, Idon’t care what you say. It’s a cryin’shame Alec cain’t visit his own Daddy out there in California. Bad enough he don’t pay his agin’ Grandmama avisit now an’ then.

Rex (seeking an opening):But, Mom, Alec’s …

Inez (riding high on the sound of her own voice):He’s goin’ on twenty-one. Old ‘nuff tobreak free a’his Mama’s apron strings. No reason for your ex-wife to hold that boy on a tight leash. I tell you, it’s just …(searching for words suitably harsh) it’s plain…

Rex (taking advantage of the pause): He’s inschool, Mom. That’s all. (Quickly,husky-voiced) So, how are things in Florida? What’s new in the neighborhood? Missus Tuttle still on her high horse?

Inez (harrumphing, ready to charge): RamonaTuttle! That woman, with her prancin’,oddball son’s got no business lookin’ down her nose on me! Just ‘cause she don’t ‘prove of how somebodylives they … (a sudden pause; a lightgoing on). Say! You reckon Marcia don’t let Alec visit you‘cause of … (hesitating, cautious)‘cause you livin’ with (distastefully)your friend? He ain’t…(fearful, vaguely put out) he ain’t come down with nuthin’? Y’all both bein’ careful?

Rex (offended; resigned): His name is Rand,Mom. He’s perfectly healthy. RandOsmond. And he’s much more than a …”

Inez (oblivious, shifting directions again): Beatsme how come you married Marcia in the first place. She wasn’t never no housekeeper, and …

Rex (determined, explicit): Because I loved her, Mom. Same reason I’m with Ran—

Inez (interrupting, voice dripping sarcasm): Love! Like that’s ever been ‘nuff to hold two peoples together. Just look at how …

Rex (peremptory, breaking in decidedly):Well, then! We’re finally agreed onsomething! Love isn’t always enough, isit? Not nearly enough.

Inez (aggrieved): I declare, son. Sometimes I think we livin’ in ‘endtimes’. Just like the Bible says.

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You can order So They Say on Amazon or learn more at ww.jaurquhart.com.

The Thrill of the Cast Album

2011-11-17T08:47:00.001-05:00

This morning on my way to work I did something I haven't done in a while: listened to a brand new cast album from a new musical. Mind you, I grew up doing this ritual (when they were actual albums). As a child, I loved going in my bedroom and playing a Broadway musical...seeing it all in my mind (as I lived in Texas and didn't see a real Broadway show until my first visit to NYC in summer of '84). (Yes....the boy in the striped shirt below loved musicals: cliche, I know.) By the time I was 14 - I had the joy of experiencing a musical I had written produced on stage and continued writing for the stage for years after that. For me, there is something truly glorious when a character becomes so impassioned by their thoughts, words cannot suffice and they must burst out into song. In the early '90s, I was part of the BMI Musical Theatre Workshop where we would take movies and find certain scenes that we wanted to write a song for that moment.

Greg in 6th grade

Well that is what the creative team behind A Christmas Story, The Musical! have done. To say my family has always been obsessed with the movie it is based on would be an understatement. We couldn't wait for it to come on each year. And when it started the all day back-to-back run on TV, we would leave it on and continue watching it - reciting lines with the actors.

Listening to the cast album of this show in my car, I could see every single moment vividly in my mind (and I've yet to see it on stage). The score is a mix of what is wonderful about a modern musical mixed with all that is brilliant from the Broadway of yesteryear. The movie it is based on had a musical underscoring that would punctuate certain moments in the movie and stage composer & lyricist Benj Pasek & Justin Paul have accomplished that very thing (and added to it) in their amazing score. I love the melodies, harmonic phrases, sweeping orchestrations and the little boy singing Ralphie Parker sends shivers through me with his not-yet-changed vocal range.

Scene from the musical

I believe there is a reason when certain things are mentioned again and again. About two months ago - A Christmas Story kept popping up in conversations I would have with people in the oddest of ways. (One of which was a friend of mine is listed as producer on this musical along with Peter Billingsley the actor who played young Ralphie in the movie version.) Maybe the constant discussion around this movie/musical was simply the universe crying out this story still has a lot of life left in it and I hope that a new audience gets to enjoy it now in its musical format for years to come. Already the version seen last season and this year's tour is getting great reviews as it heads towards Broadway for next season.

Peter Billingsley: Then & Now

I love this story and now I love the music just as much and can't wait to see it! I know we are five weeks away from Christmas, but if you want to get in the mood - check out the tour schedule for this musical and if you can get your hands on a copy of the CD...do it! You'll be so glad you did.

When Trust is Gone

2011-11-15T09:15:00.001-05:00

So many stories on the news this morning that I found infuriating. From Sandusky making excuses of showering with boys to a special needs child in Ohio being bullied by her teacher to the horrible shooting in Arizona last January. These news stories bring up so many different emotions and issues, but it got me thinking about one in particular: trust.

We trust those adults when we place children into their hands during the day when parents cannot be with them. We trust those in positions of power to protect and defend. We trust that people will make the right decision when given a choice between right and wrong.

What do we do when trust is broken?

The special needs child is 14 and this has been happening to her for four years where the school system said she was lying and they believed the teacher (until the parents wired the girl and recorded conversations). How does this affect the rest of her life?

The children with Sandusky have grown up, but each have been affected by what happened to them in so many different ways. How do they learn to trust again?

Trust is something we tend to give away freely instead of making people earn it. You get into a car with someone and instantly trust they know how to drive. You go to the bank to make a withdrawal and many times leave without counting your money, trusting it is all there.

It can be shattered in an instance when something traumatic occurs or it can be chipped away slowly in a marriage or a relationship when secrecy and deceit creep in. We've seen high profile marriages crumble under the media spotlight because of cheating, social media hook-ups - the dissolution of trust. It is something we all deal with (even those that state they 'trust no one') and something we need in order to feel secure. And when it is taken away, it can take a long time to regain.

I hope in the cases of these news stories those involved are able to get it back. I know from personal experience trust can be found again, but it is a fragile thing that must be nurtured and held in high esteem so as not to find it broken again. (And I hope those on the end of the broken trust in these high profile cases above get everything they have coming to them to the full extent of the law. Yes...I'm THAT vindictive when it comes to hurting children.)

From the Inside Out: Best Friends - Benji & Michelle

2011-11-14T13:39:00.001-05:00

Sweet Like Sugar follows a 20-something gay man named Benji, who’s alienated from the Jewish traditions he grew up observing. One day, an elderly Orthodox rabbi stumbles into his suburban office, and the two unexpectedly become friends. As they struggle to accept each other, and overcome their preconceptions about one another, each one finds he has much to learn – and much to teach. But while Benji is trying to reconnect with his religious roots, he’s also looking for something equally elusive: a boyfriend. He hasn’t had much luck lately, as his roommate and best friend Michelle can attest.

Michelle: I’ve known you for a long time, Benji – since freshman year of college – and we’ve lived together for five years since we graduated. And in all that time, you’ve never had much luck with the guys you date.

Benji: What’re you talking about? I get lucky all the time.

Michelle: Very funny. I know about that. Your bedroom is right next to mine! But that’s not what I mean.

Benji: I know. And it’s true. I’ve dated a long string of Mister Wrongs. Most of them were very cute, but they weren’t the right ones.

Michelle: Why do you think that is? You’re a good catch. You run your own business, you’re smart, you’ve still got all your hair. You shouldn’t have trouble meeting potential boyfriends.

Benji: Maybe I’m hanging out in the wrong places.

Michelle: Well, it seems like lately, the only place you’re hanging out is with that rabbi who works next to your office.

Benji: I’m just driving him home, Michelle. He’s an old man with nobody else to help him, and he can’t walk up that hill anymore. We’re not “hanging out.”

Michelle: It’s the longest relationship you’ve had with a man since I’ve known you. And that’s sad.

Benji: Have you been talking to my mother? She can’t stand this arrangement either.

Michelle: Why? She’s always bugging you to go to synagogue. I think she’d be happy to hear that you’re spending time with a rabbi.

Benji: She thinks he’s going to turn me Orthodox. Like I’m going to wake up tomorrow wearing a yarmulke and keeping kosher.

Michelle: Good luck with that! I know you pretty damn well, and I know that nothing comes between you and your pepperoni pizza.

Benji: Very true. But you know, you’re not exactly one to talk about my romantic life. It’s not like you dated a parade of winners yourself. I could make a pretty horrifying list of the guys you went out with in college. And since.

Michelle: Yeah, but I’m with Dan now, and all those other guys have been forgotten. Once you find the right one, it doesn’t matter how many bad dates you had to go on first.

Benji: Dan is pretty great, I have to admit. I’d be happy to meet a guy like him.

Michelle: Well, back off! He’s mine!

Benji: You have nothing to worry about.

Michelle: What do you mean? Don’t you think he’s cute?

Benji: He’s cute, yes. You know he is.

Michelle: So, what is it? He’s not your type?

Benji: It doesn’t matter, Michelle. I’m not his type.

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To read more about Sweet Like Sugar, visit waynehoffmanwriter.com.

Who Has Been Forgotten?

2011-11-10T09:18:00.000-05:00

As I watch the news of the horrible Penn State scandal unravel, my mind is full of so many thoughts. School boards scurry to meet to decide what should be done. Thousands of students took to the streets last night in protest as they pushed over news vans in their outrage. Coaches offer news conferences to plea their side of the story in public opinion. People trying to understand how such a thing could ever happen in the first place.

I have no problem with people assembling to make their voice heard. That's what being a college student is about as you come into your own as an adult and offer the world your opinions. My problem is the amount of protesting in honor of those faces we continue to see on the news that have become beloved people by many who have passed through the halls of Penn State.

But what about the kids?

Who is rallying for them and causing an outrage over the fact that their childhood was (allegedly) completely robbed? That adults could know this was going on and not go to the police is completely unfathomable to me. If you know and keep that secret among the ranks of your internal circle and not bring to the authorities - you've wronged that child again. Adults can fend for themselves. They don't need you to keep secrets for them to protect them. Children are the ones that need protection. And while a criminal investigation must now take place, would you want those that were involved (in any way/shape/form) to be allowed to hold positions of power in a higher educational institution where your children were attending? I'm not a parent, but I can answer that will a resounding 'no'. I would want them removed from the place while the authorities did their job. I would want those college students to learn at their age that decisions have consequences and they are better off to learn that now.

And perhaps, just maybe...a student tipping that news van might decide to take a new path in their own lives. One that involves child advocacy in some way. A way to make the voices of those young boys heard to counter the cries of wrong doing towards a beloved coach.

Someone has to speak up for the forgotten. I hope and pray that among those thousands protesting - some of them are thinking of those kids.

Here Lies Greg

2011-11-07T14:47:00.000-05:00

Have you ever thought what you wanted your tombstone to say? I don't mean to be morbid thinking about death, but I'm actually thinking more about life. How did you live your life? Did you meet your full potential? Did you give back to others? Were you a kind individual?

As we go along our personal journey, there are so many different types that cross our paths. I've been in management for years and have always told those that report to me to not only bring up issues that they come across, but think of a solution. What can you bring to the table for a problem you identify? How do you think the team can work best to fix it?

There are many in the world who love to point out problems without any offer of a way around it. Then there are those that will share knowledge, give better ways to ascertain a situation, and want you to learn from their mistakes.

I strive to be the latter.

I've met some amazing strangers...STRANGERS who have gone down a similar path to me (either in writing or others jobs I've had) and are so willing to help others along the way. I find that character trait to be remarkable. I could add a long list of names right now that I've come across on twitter and the internet who spend time doing what they love - but also assisting others attempting to do that very thing. What an awesome way to live your life...and I've seen them reaping some wonderful rewards in the process for just being a likable person.

I've learned so much in the past 6-8 months as I ventured into the world of being one of the many indie authors and when I learn something, I try my best to share it. That's just what I think people should do. I want to pay it forward and not tear someone down. Nothing to be gained from competing with a fellow writer and thinking the sandbox isn't large enough for us all to place our pails in and fill them to the brim.

If my tombstone says "Here lies Greg...he paid it forward" - I'd be a very happy corpse.

From the Inside Out: The Garrett Brothers

2011-11-04T09:46:00.000-04:00

Well With My Soul centers on the turbulent lives of two brothers: Jacob is a liberal gay man and Noah is a southern conservative. It follows them through 15 years of their lives as they make choices trying to find that elusive inner 'peace' that makes all right with the world. They've joined us today for an interview. Take it away Garrett brothers!

Noah: So how long are we going to sit here staring at each other?

Jacob: You tell me. I've got plenty of things I could be doing, but you agreed to this brotherly interview...which really makes no sense to me.

Noah: Well, since we're in my apartment - you think you could put out that cigarette?

Jacob: I knew I should have made you come to the west side instead. Can I at least have a drink while you talk?

Noah: Knock yourself out, older brother.

Jacob: So, come on. I don't have all day. Ask your questions.

Noah: Did you ever think of me and Mama once you left Tennessee and moved to New York?

Jacob: That's a stupid question, Bubba. You think I'm so busy in my career that I don't have time to remember where I came from?

Noah: I thought that was my job to think of the past. You only seem to live in the moment.

Jacob: My moments are pretty damn good and well worth it.

Noah: Question two. Do you like what you do?

Jacob: Are you kidding? I love my life. Who wouldn't want to be me? I travel from New York to London to Paris all within a few days to do amazing photo shoots living the life of a king. Anything I want is at my fingertips with a snap. Anyone...

Noah: Say it. Anyone you want. As if your boyfriend doesn't know.

Jacob: Is this going to become a talk about my being gay? Because if it is, I can leave.

Noah: I didn't question you being gay. It was more about being faithful.

Jacob: Let me ask a question since you really had no more higher education than I did.

Noah: Let's not have the who is smarter fight again...

Jacob: Question. Are you jealous of me? Huh? Did you hate the relationship I had with Mama? The fact I got away before you did?

Noah: I think we've had enough Garrett family reunion for one night, Jacob. We'll try again next week. Head back to the other side of town and let's put the park back between us.

To learn more about the Garrett brothers, visit ASD Publishing or Gregory's website.

Up & Down in One Day

2011-11-02T13:07:00.001-04:00

November starts and I find myself bouncing on the bumpy ride of the book marketing train. Authors dream of the day their book is finally published and people can read it. However, then it means 'people can read it'! And it's out of your hands how it is received, what is said, and how well it sells.

The month started off wonderfully for me by being named a finalist in the Fiction: Literary category of the USA "Best Books 2011" Awards. There are so many awards out there and for indie authors, we all want to be careful to not get pulled into scams. (And as I type that - I know there are those that feel most awards are scams.) For me, it means someone else that you I didn't know went through a list of nominees in each category and chose those to move to the head of the class. And like the little boy who enjoyed sitting next to the teacher's desk and feeling validated in a strange way - I have that sense of approval in a list that includes some major publishers with other indies like myself.

Then today I see my book was reviewed in a gay magazine in a large US city with a few not so favorable words thrown in (not to mention: they told every plot turn of the book). At first, you can't help but feel deflated as you've poured months and years into your work and then someone writes a 15 line synopsis, calls it a review, and gives away the story for free. But learning from some friends who are so awesome at seeing the glass half full - I decide it's best to be talked about than not spoken of at all. I didn't ask for this review: so it means somehow I ended up on this person's radar all those miles away - listed in their magazine and perhaps this particular story will touch a chord in someone that reads that review - and that's still an awesome feeling. (But yes: no link to that magazine as I'm not about to give away the story myself!)

While the analytical side of my brain would love to ponder this wave-like ride, I can't think of it too much as I have to get to the post office to mail off a few copies of the book to judges for another well known award (that they do not allow you to mention the name prior to their event) and I have to record a radio interview with someone in Boston. It is all such an exciting time that you really must allow the highs and lows...or else you go through life on one level and what fun is that? (Next to Normal: I Miss The Mountains)

Author Spotlight: Spencer Seidel

2011-10-31T10:11:00.002-04:00

I have loved running the spotlights this month on other authors I've met as I started my own journey down this road. I feel I've learned so much from each of them and hope that the readers of my blog have as well. I end this month with a fellow New Jersey author. SpencerSeidel was introduced to me by a mutualfriend. I immediately began following him on twitter – bought his book Dead Of Wynter (which I highlyrecommend for Halloween or any other time of the year) and have eagerly watched his career take off this past year.

Spencer,thanks so much for taking the time to visit my blog. Tell me when you knewwriting was what you wanted to do.

As a kid, Iwas a voracious reader, so I sort of knew even then that I wanted to write. ButI soon got sidetracked into music, which became my obsession until my early20's. Then, I wrote a 300-or-so-page thesis on artificial intelligence forschool, and that old writing bug bit me. Soon after, I was writing shortstories and thinking about novels. I deconstructed many novels to figure outhow it was done before making my first attempt.

Youand I share that love of music. What genres do you write in?

To date, I'vewritten suspense novels, but many of my readers have pointed out that there's ahorror novelist in me waiting to come out. It may in my next novel!

Whatdifferent routes did you try as far as publishing? Did you go the traditionalroute or did you ever consider self pub?

I wrote two novels before my third was pickedup by my publisher. I never seriously thought about self-publishing thembecause I realized that there was probably a reason I couldn't sell them. And Istand by that. Although they are "good" novels in many ways, theyjust weren't ready.

Sotell us all about your collection of books: when it was out, where we can getthem, etc.

My firstnovel, DEAD OF WYNTER, was released in trade paperback and ebook this year(2011 as of this writing). In the months before it was published, I was hard atwork on another called LOVESICK. My publisher read it, and we signed a contractsoon after, even before DEAD OF WYNTER was published. They decided to releaseLOVESICK in ebook format first--it's coming out hopefully this November. Thatwill be followed by a limited print run next summer, so I can go to signingsand give talks. Like many in the industry, we've discovered that the ebook versionsout-sell the print versions by a wide margin, something like 8-1.

Thoseare amazing numbers. Thanks for sharing. What other experiences have you hadonce becoming a published author?

I havelearned more about the publishing industry and its quirks in the last sixmonths than in all the years I was dreaming about having a book published. It'sa weird time in the industry and things are changing, but I'm not all doom andgloom about it. On my various book-tour signings this summer, I discovered thatpeople are still reading and buying books like crazy. That hasn't changed.Having said that, however, small publishers, my own included, are having arough go of it. There are a lot of folks out there hawking books, so it's hardto attract attention.

How do you go about marketing and promotingyour work?

So far, it'sbeen the usual things: blog tours, book signings, Twitter, Facebook, Goodreads,giveaways, etc., and some not-so-usual things like radio interviews. I've foundFacebook to be the most successful so far. A lot of voodoo and pixie dust gointo book promoting. Often, the most effective things are not things you planned.Everyone knows that word-of-mouth is the way to sell books, but the trouble isthat not all books are equal. Some books take off, others don't. Some debutsdon't sell until the author has released another two. Or more. So, my strategyhas been to keep calm and carry on, to just keep writing.

Sosmart to keep your head focused on writing and not get too bogged down in ‘howam I doing?’ Looking back, is there something you would have done differentlyor warn someone just starting to watch out for?

I wouldn'tchange much about what I've done. I'm learning and evolving as I go. Nothing isreally a "mistake." It's a learning process. As for warnings, yes: bevery skeptical of anyone who tells you that for the right price, they'll fixyour manuscript or tell you how to write a bestseller. It's just like anythingelse. 99.999% of successful people in this industry have worked their asses offto get what they have. There's no easy path to success, and I work at thisevery single day to hopefully find it.

Ireally appreciate you taking time to join me on my blog. Anything else youwould like to share?

Only thatit's an exciting time to be involved in the industry. There will come a timeyears from now when this era will be discussed and dissected from a hindsightpoint of view. I will be happy to have those conversations because I was there,living through it all.

You can reach Spencer at his website. Be sure and check out his current novel as well as the upcoming LOVESICK out in November.

Playing Favorites with Months

2011-10-30T19:18:00.000-04:00

October has always been a favorite month of mine...and this year has been no exception. (The past 24 hours where we had a freak snow storm in the northeast excluded.) I think it's that fall is my favorite season and growing up in Texas we would finally get that 'fall' feeling by this month. I love the colors, the smells, and how I generally 'feel'.

Today I did a reading and signing of my book at a wonderful event with talented singers and musicians where I was able to talk of the influence of music on my writing. It occurred to me while speaking to them that the first musical I ever wrote (28 years ago) was produced in the month of October. (It was a children's Halloween musical after all called Dracula Bites at Dusk.)

I moved to NYC on October 1st four years after that.

Five years ago, I left a corporate job (after 13 years) and started a new one in the arts...in the month of October.

I love to travel and every year I love taking trips at this time of the year because the air is more welcoming and a calmness comes over me that I can't quite explain.

This year, it was in this month that my debut novel made it's way into the world when it officially came out on what has now been "Coming Out Day" for the GLBT community since 1988. And this month plays a pivotal role in that very book, Well With My Soul, with many things occurring in this autumn month throughout the 15 years in the life of one of the characters.

I guess if I had to choose a 'lucky month' - it would certainly be this one. Sorry to see you end, October. You have been very good to me this year.

Do you have a favorite time of year that stands out with significance to you? Leave me a comment about it.

Author Spotlight: Kage Alan

2011-10-28T13:15:00.000-04:00

Kage Alan was of the firstauthors I found on twitter and I bought up (and read) his very funny book “AFunny Thing Happened on the Way to My Sexual Orientation.” I was happy heagreed to be on my blog today.

In his words: Very few peoplehave mastered the fine art of making fun of others. Comediennes have, butthey're too easy to find because they make public appearances. Irritatingsomeone and making them laugh while you're doing it requires a more advancedintellect, a delicate touch and, of course, being a writer. I've gone to greatlengths in learning how to make fun of myself before turning my pen...orkeyboard...towards those around me. It's how my comedies have been born. Further mirth and mayhem can be found at my site,KageAlan.com, and in my blog posts. Enjoy!

SoKage (love that name!) when did you start writing?

I started writing puppetplays in 2^nd grade, which turned into short stories in Jr. Highand then longer pieces in college. It never occurred to me to think of itas “serious” because writing has always been serious. It was a fight,though. My teachers tried to steer me into writing a very, very specificway; their way. Were you ever taught how to write a paragraph? A maintopic sentence, three subtopic sentences and blah blah blah? Yeah, nobodywrites that way and you sure as heck don’t write a novel that way. Andwhen I pointed that out to one teacher in particular, she labeled me as atroublemaker. Little did she know I took it as a compliment.

Very funny! What genre do youwrite in?

The genre I write in, whenasked…as I have been, is comedy. Dig a little deeper and one mightdiscover that I write comedy featuring characters in the lead who happen to begay. Dig a little deeper than that and it’s entirely possible one mightfind that I tend to add a multi-cultural element to each comedic tale. Why? Becausemy partner is half Chinese and it tickles me to write things about him that hedoesn’t realize I am.

How long did you search for apublisher before you started with your current one?

It took well over 3 years beforeI found my first publisher and they were definitely the bottom rung on theladder. When somebody’s printing books in their garage and the ink on thecovers run, you don’t go much lower. And, once they went out of business,it took yet another year before finding my current publisher. I onlyrecently threw out the stack of rejection letters that had accumulated. Idid keep a couple of them only because they make me giggle. One potentialpublisher suggested I rewrite my first novel in third person, then they’d“consider” looking at it again. Uh, no. Another asked what I hadagainst people named Richard since I took a shot at one in the story. Hadhe read further, he’d see I’m an equal opportunity annoyer.

Tell us a little about yourcollection that is out there in the public.

The first version of A Funny Thing Happened on the Way To MySexual Orientation came out in 2003. It was followed by Andy Stevenson Vs. the Lord of the Loinsand (from last year) Gaylias: OperationThunderspell. The books are in print and e-book. Ironically, I’mnot a huge fan of e-books, but I can’t deny that the majority of my sales arefrom e-books. I just happen to be from a generation that enjoys flippingthrough pages and feeling the weight of a book in my hand. Okay, you canalso sign a book. You can’t sign an e-book.

Did your publisher handleeverything like one of the big publishers or is there something more you feelyou have to do with marketing/promoting/social media?

My publisher published the book. Beyondthat, they look for a very strong commitment from their authors. I do allof my own social media (MySpace, Facebook, Twitter, StumbleUpon, Google+,Reddit, etc), book my own signings, seek out reviewers to read my book and findrecognizable names to give me blurbs for my back covers. They’re difficultlessons to learn, but it’s something every author should go through. Thegood news is that misery loves company and there are plenty of us out thereswimming the social media streams while bitching about it.

It’s been a few years now sinceyour first book came out. In hindsight, any changes you would have made or donedifferent?

I can’t say that I would havedone things different. There were many fellow authors out there who offeredadvice and helped guide me through the process. One thing I’m extremelygrateful for is their insistence that I have a lawyer look over every contractfrom a publisher before I sign it. A publisher is looking after theirinterests. Nobody will do that for you, so if you hire a lawyer, it’s theonly peace of mind you’re likely to get. Other folks will insist on trying toland an agent. Don’t waste your time, at least in the beginning. Ihad one. Go out and prove you can get a book published first, learn theins and out of promoting your work and then maybe start to look for an agentlater if you still feel the urge.

Anything else you would like toshare about your foray into being a published author?

Sure. If you’re a straightmale, being an author is a total chick magnet! If you’re a gay male, it’sa total guy magnet! I’m assuming it’s the same for the opposite sex,too. Either way, publishing can be a wonderful addition to your love lifeopportunities! Okay, and those rare e-mails from folks who liked what youwrote make it worthwhile, too. The signings are a definite perk…lunch withNathan Fillion every couple of months is fun…wearing shirts that say “Carefulor you’ll wind up in my novel” raises a few eyebrows and… Well, you’lljust have to discover the rest for yourself.

Book Touring to Sirius Radio

2011-10-27T14:44:00.000-04:00

Kitty Goes Everywhere:
Even the Sirius Radio Station

If you think that love isn't found on the radio...
What an amazing day I had. Even a rainy morning in New York couldn't get me down today. I had the honor of appearing on Out Q Sirius Radio with host Larry Flick to discuss my book on The Morning Jolt. People may find it bizarre that a man who has been an actor and a singer on stage (and toured the country in a ninja turtle suit) can get nervous, but I still do. As an author, I think one of the hardest parts is just being 'you' and discussing your book and yourself. There are times we think "why should people listen to what I have to say?" and then someone like Larry reads your book and asks you to come on to discuss it and there is a sense of amazing validation for your work.

I'm always one to live in reality (Lord knows I've watched enough reality TV) - by that I mean I don't have grand notions of my book hitting the NY Times Best Seller List or Hollywood knocking on my door. I stay grounded and simply want to write stories that people enjoy - that will hopefully touch, inspire, and cause people to ask questions. However, with each 'first' that happens on this book tour - I can't help but stop and breathe it in and enjoy the moment as it happens. There is something surreal that takes over as you float through it believing it's not really happening to you: people are not in a line to buy your book and have it signed at a local store; you are not talking to a well known DJ who read your book and is telling people on a national level about it on his show; you really didn't just notice your numbers climbing on the Amazon list indicating more sells have occurred. The thrill is very hard to describe, yet 'thrill' is the word to use.

Heading into this morning, a real sense of who I am took over as I analyzed the fear I was having. I am a huge planner (have you seen my blogs on my vacations?) and somewhat of a control freak. (Friends reading this are now saying 'somewhat'? Remove that word!) It hit me the fear of a live radio interview came out of the fact I had completely no control over anything. Nada. Not knowing the questions or where it would lead is hard on a type A personality...but it was great and I absolutely loved being there. Larry Flick has been doing this for years and he was so kind and warm towards me, he put me right at ease and I felt like I was talking to a group of old friends with both him and Keith Price (who does the show each morning with Larry).

My dear friend (who also acts as my life coach) told me those things that seem like a coincidence should not easily be pushed aside. As I walked up to the building this morning, it struck me that I almost ended up working in that very McGraw-Hill Building. I had interviewed there with a prominent banking company and came close to taking the job (until my former job ponied up more money to keep me with them). And I stood staring across the street at Radio City Music Hall that also plays a major turning point in Well With My Soul and thought about how the book and reality were merging. Then once inside, I find out that Keith and I are both originally from Texas and swore we had met before. Coincidences be damned!

I can't say thanks to Larry enough for today. It's one more moment I'll hang on to from this tour (that has included book signings, blog tours, radio spots) and hopefully - one more moment that will introduce his listeners to my book and I'll get an opportunity to reach someone else with my writing.

For me, that's what it's all about.

Be "well" all...and tune in to Larry's show each morning on channel 108 on Sirius! Great interviews, talks, and music!

Author Spotlight: Jesi Lea Ryan

2011-10-26T09:26:00.000-04:00

I’ve been following Jesi Lea Ryan on twitter andasked if I could interview her for my blog. Happy she said “YES”! She was bornand raised in the Mississippi River town of Dubuque, Iowa. She graduated fromLoras College with degrees in Creative Writing and Literature, and is nowworking on her MBA. She currently lives with her husband in Madison, Wisconsin.When not reading or writing, she spends her time working for the Indie BookCollective and talking to random people on Twitter. In addition to herdebut novel, Four Thousand Miles, she has published several short stories andmaintains a book blog.

So I always startwith this question: When did writing become such a part of your life?

Books have always been a majorpart of my life. I began reading at three, chapter books by six. Iwrote my first book when I was eight. My school librarian helped mepublish it locally and it ended up being placed in dentist offices andsuch. I don’t even have a copy of it any more. J Anyway, that experience sparked a love for writing in me,but I never believed I had the talent or connections to make a real career outof writing. I majored in Creative Writing and Literature in college, butonly because I was interested in the classes, not because I planned to work inthose areas. Instead, I set writing aside for the exciting world ofinsurance. In 2009, I and a few other million people in the U.S. were laidoff from our jobs during the recession. I decided then that I feltconfident enough to start writing seriously. I had never written novellength before, and I wasn’t even sure I could do it. Four ThousandMiles was women’s fiction / romance. I had a great time writingit. The reviews have all been very positive, so I’m thrilled withthat. My current novel, which is in the revision stage, is a young adultparanormal—the first in a trilogy. I have also written a few short storieswhich fall into literary fiction. I guess since my reading tastes are soeclectic, that shows in my writing.

What differentroutes did you try as far as publishing (traditional/Indie/Self)?

My first attempts were to try to find an agentfor Four Thousand Miles. That was a colossal failure! Noone wanted to touch women’s fiction. In May of 2010, I attended theRomantic Times Book Lovers Convention, hoping to get some face-to-face timewith the agents, but when I got there, the agent appointments were all booked. So,I changed my strategy and scheduled appointments directly with the editors fromthe publishers. The response I received from them was very positive! Infact, the first editor I met with was from DCL Publications, and within twoweeks of receiving my sample chapters, she bought the book. While my novel waspublished by a small publisher, I published my short stories myself. Thisgives me experience on both sides of the industry.

When/what/how? (Releasedates/what books/how can we read ‘em?)

My novel was released in e-bookin October 2010, but due to distribution problems, it didn’t make it ontoAmazon until May 2011 and STILL is not on Barns & Noble. (No, I am nothappy about that.) Also, my publisher holds the print rights, yet has nointention of releasing it in print. I asked for my print rights back so I couldself-publish the print version, but they refused. I’m stuck until the endof my contract. I chalk that one up to learning experience. My shortstories are also only available in e-book. I suppose it I ever accumulatedenough of them I could put together an anthology, but honestly, I don’t write alot of short fiction.

I can see therehave been definite issues in your journey. Can you elaborate on the experience?

Honestly, there are pro’s andcon’s whichever way to go, traditional or self-publishing. I like thecontrol I get from self-publishing. I didn’t encounter distributionproblems because I handled it all myself. I also could set the pricing,give away as many free copies as I wanted. On the other hand, theediting services that a publisher offers are nice. Diane Davis White wasmy editor, and I can’t say enough good things about working with her. Mysuggestion when signing with any publisher is to know exactly what they aregoing to do for you. Ask questions about distribution, promotion andmoney. If you don’t have an agent, you should probably have a contractattorney familiar with publishing review your paperwork. There can be aton of loopholes in these contracts that you need to be aware of. A greatresource on contracts is http://www.thepassivevoice.com.

Thanks for sharing that! Tellus a little about your marketing process and thoughts on social media.

I don’t think I could have doneany of this without Twitter. It is seriously the single most importanttool in my writing toolbox. I knew how to write a book. What I didn’tknow was what to do with it when I was done. Writers on Twitter are justwonderful about offering advice and support. As a natural extrovert,Twitter also adds a social component to writing that I desperately need. Marketingvia Twitter and other social media can be a bit tricky. On one hand, it isan affordable way to get the word out on your products. On the other hand,you have to be careful not to go over board and turn your Twitter stream intoone long commercial for your book. Don’t spam people with links to yourbook or blog, just talk to them. People want to get to know you, and whenthey do, they are more likely to check out your stuff. I guess the bestthing I can say is to advertise on social media in moderation. The bestpromotion is word of mouth generated by someone other than you. Use yoursocial media contacts to talk about your work. It’s free and provideslots of benefit!

Really great advice as I knowwe authors get excited when it is ‘book launch’ time and it seems as if that’sall we discuss. Looking back, is there something you would have changed?

I’m not sure. I mean Iguess it would have been cool to score a huge publisher with a hefty advance,but since I didn’t want to wait for something that might not have everhappened, I signed with a small publisher. I’m happy with that decisionand have no regrets. I do wish I would have gotten a little more guidanceon my contract before I signed it. Not that I have found anythingparticularly wrong with mine or anything, I just think I should have been alittle more diligent before signing.

Anything else you would like toshare before leaving us today?

This is such a fun and excitingtime for publishing. The technology is moving so fast that it isrevolutionizing the whole industry. If you are a struggling author who ishaving trouble getting the attention of agents or publishers, considerself-publishing.

Author Spotlight: Don Smith

2011-10-24T08:25:00.001-04:00

I first came upon author Don Smith from reading about him in my town. Then when I was being interviewed for amagazine article the interviewer and I ended up discussing him and I knew Iwanted to interview him for my blog. Don is a freelance writer who has writtenfor many web sites, two different comic book companies, and author of twobooks, Hawthorne from ArcadiaPublishing and The Goffle Road Murders of Passaic Countyfrom History Press.

Thanks for joining me today, Don. You have quite a career in writing.Can you tell us when you started?

When I was growing up in school, to me writing was synonymous withschool work and I hated it. But I realized as I continued on writing in schoolthat I enjoyed the "story telling" exercises. I remember writing myown science fiction stories in third grade - one was the discovery of lasersand the other was about a mutated mosquito. But by the time I was in sixthgrade, I was writing my own versions of "Encyclopedia Brown" and thatwas the first real time I remember writing a story. Ultimately, I realized thatwhat I wanted to do was to tell stories about super heroes and this led to megoing in the direction of writing. I wish I could say "On Jan. 15, 1984,the Almighty came as a fiery burning angel saying, 'Yea, verily! Don, thoushalt be a writer!'" But that did not happen. It was a gradualrealization.

I know you have been published with two different houses with yourbooks. Did you ever consider the ‘do it yourself’ route?

To me publishing is a varied as the subject matter of the book;ultimately, the publishing route dictates the product you have to offer. Mybiggest problem was I did not have a book to offer. Every time I would try towrite a novel or work on a script, I would get bored with the novel writingroute. I could only make it like 20,000 words in and realize I was bored withthe story.

However, writing Hawthorneand The Goffle Road Murders of PassaicCounty made sense because they were shorter "tomes" and I hadmore patience with them. And fortunately, the publishers were available. I willsay this; I have tried self-publishing with my newest venture "GhostAdventures" #1. It is a comic book based on a story that appeared in myfriends real life ghost hunting tales. I will let you know how it turnsout.

How long have you had books out there for the public to read?

My first book Hawthorne fromArcadia Publishing came out in 2006 and my second one, The Goffle Road Murders of Passaic County just came out in August. Ialso contributed to two different books GhostInvestigator Volume 4: Ghosts of New York and New Jersey (2004 SpiritedBooks) Werewolves: Myth, Mystery andMagick which came out from Schiffer Publishing this year.

What has your experience been like on the publishing side of things?

For the most part, it has been interesting. I am simply amazed at howmuch I cannot make a living publishing. Honestly, unless you are the editors orthe marketers, the writers themselves are unable to make a living doing it.Simply, most writers have to get a part time job or make another living doingsomething else until their books take off. But here's the thing, it is doableand every writer can carve their own path.

How important is social media to you as an author?

I live on Facebook. I am constantly sending messages, voicing myopinions and creating a niche and an identity for myself. Some of my marketingfriends have a massive plan and move forward with certain efforts...to behonest, I am not that net savvy, but what I do is make the rounds on Blog TalkRadio and other podcasts. But again, it depends on the subject matter of thebook.

You’ve been at this a few years now. Is there anything you look back onand wish you would have done differently?

At the risk of being evangelical...I would tell myself to remember twothings, "Has it ever occurred to you, nothing occurs to God?" and"The older you get the more useless ego is."

I am sorry at the amount of times I wasted worrying and how it allworked out one way or the other. I have also learned the importance of having arelationship with a Higher Power or God. I prefer to come at it from aBorn-Again Christian point of view and being reminded that something bigger islooking out for you and has it under control.

No risk of sounding evangelical on my blog! (Southern Baptist guy hereliving in Jersey.) Anything else you would like to share about your adventuresof being a published author?

Basically, you can carve your own path. While it will have similaritiesbetween your career and others, it is still a very individual path and it isokay to do what is practical and what works. What works for you will not workfor someone else and vice versa. Ultimately, the most important thing isacceptance of where your station is in life.

Don mentioned being on Facebook: look for him there. He'll also be doing a book signing at 6:30 pm on Tuesday, October 25th at Well Read Books in Hawthorne, NJ.

Author Spotlight: Terri Giuliano Long

2011-10-22T14:31:00.000-04:00

TerriGiuliano Long is the bestselling author of the award-winning novel In Leah’sWake which tells the tale of a contemporary American family caught in thethroes of adolescent rebellion - a heartbreaking, funny, ultimately redemptivequest for love, independence, connection and grace (which I personally wantedto shake this family while reading it)! Books offer her a zest for life’shighs and comfort in its lows. She’s all-too-happy to share this love withothers as a novelist and a writing teacher at Boston College. She was gratefuland thrilled beyond words when In Leah’s Wake hit the Barnes & Noble and Amazon bestseller lists in August. Sheowes a lot of wonderful people – big time! – for any success she’s enjoyed!

Terri, welcome to my blog! I’m so glad you couldjoin me. I read your book and I want to jump right into when you knew youwanted to be a writer.

Untilhigh school, I planned to be visual artist - a graphic artist or painter. Atheart, though, I’ve always been a writer. As a child, I entertained myself bymaking up stories and acting in my own improvisational plays. In high school, Itook an advanced writing course; I loved the class and began writing for theschool paper. One day, brazenly, I walked into office at the town paper andasked the editor for a job. At first, I covered sports and other high schoolnews; soon, I was given my own column. I was sixteen. That column was my firstpaid writing job. I earned about a dollar a week – and I knew then that theonly job I’d ever want would be as a writer.

So once you knew you wanted to attemptpublishing, which route did you go?

In 2006, the book was under contract with anindie publisher. Shortly before the release, problems emerged. Eventually(unrelated to me), the company folded. I sent the book to a handful of agents,received lovely, complimentary responses, but no offers. I really believed in thisbook. I’d received so much encouragement and positive feedback over the years,from agents, editors, readers, writer friends—I’m grateful, truly grateful toall of them—that I had a hard time letting go. For years, I tried to revise.Eventually, I realized I was writing in circles. The book had changed, but ithad gotten no better. Reluctantly, I put it away.

Last year, after several false starts, I finallygained traction on a new novel, my psychological thriller, Nowhereto Run. Like In Leah’s Wake, Nowhere is a family story at heart. Ianticipate finishing the new novel this fall. I knew I’d need a platform forthis new book, and hoped that self-publishing In Leah’s Wake would help me build one.

Alot of people self-publish today; for me, the indie route was a new, andscary, avenue. It’s been bumpy ride – and the best thing I’ve ever done formyself.

When did In Leah’s Wake come out?

The book came out in both print and digitalformats in October 2010. Until I have Smashwords numbers for July and August, Iwon’t have exact figures; my closest estimation is approximately 20,000 copies,16,000 since August.

I hope you realize how encouraging that is forother authors out there. Can you share some of your process behindmarketing/the business end of it all?

WhenI published In Leah’s Wake in October 2010, I had no idea what I wasdoing. I knew that the industry was changing and I’d need a platform if Ihoped to sell the new book. Stupidly, too embarrassed to self-promote, I putthe book on Amazon and left it at that. I mean really left it at that –not even my parents knew I had published the book!

I sold two books in October, four in November, and thirty-four in December. Fora few months, as people bought books for their new Kindles, I sold a few copiesa day. By March, with sales lagging, and I realized that, if I didn’t do something,the book would die. In early March, I began blogging and activated my Twitteraccount.

Unsureof what to do next, I scoured the Internet, looking for advice. After landingon the Novel Publicity site three or four times, I contacted Emlyn Chand, andsigned up for a few basic services. For the next three months, Emlyn and Iworked on building my social networking platform. She introduced me to Twitter,reorganized my blog, and created a media kit, book discussion guide, and videotrailer. In mid-May, I began my Novel Publicity blog tour. In May, I soldthirty-eight books. In June, sales increased to about 2 – 3 books a day. Now,six months later, we’ve sold nearly 20,000 copies of the novel, with 6000 salesbetween October 1and October 9.

OnceI got used to the idea that marketing didn’t have to mean unabashedself-promotion, I began to enjoy it. I’ve done two blog hops with the IBC, asecond tour - Social Media Whirlwind - with Novel Publicity, and the IBC’selite promotion, Bestseller For A Day. Emlyn and I also created an interactive InLeah’s Wake quiz and crossroads stories for my blog. Because we’ve done alot of different things, often simultaneously, it’s hard to attribute increasedsales to any specific marketing strategy. It’s more likely a case of all thesethings contributing to name recognition.

Soobviously social media is a very important part of your process...

Socialmedia is, in my estimation, our most important and effective avenue. If youconnect with people, on a human level, they remember you. They may not buy yourbook, but maybe they’ll mention your name to somebody else. Marketing makes ahuge difference, but word-of-mouth - people talking, readers recommending yourbook to their friends - has always been the most powerful and effective way tosell books. The industry is changing, for sure, but some things will always bethe same.

Your book has been out a year. Anything you wouldhave done differently? I’d market aggressivelyfrom the start, before the book came out. In 2009, 288,355 books weretraditionally published, and 764,448 indie or self-published. This was beforethe e-book explosion, so I can only imagine the numbers today. For your book tostand out, you have to make noise. While the climate is changing, many criticswon’t review indie-published books. My traditionally published friends wereinterviewed on radio and TV, and reviewed in large commercial publications likeUSA Today and People. A radio spot or review in a largecirculation paper or magazine generates interest and gets people talking.

Fewindie publishers land those major spots or reviews. The reality is, we canpromote our work or watch it languish. By the time I finally started to promotethe book, it had been out for close to six months. This gives the impressionthat the book is a loser. Shame on me - until recently, I never really gave ita shot.

Well obviously – what you have done the 2^ndsix months has really paid off and more and more people are learning about yourbook. Any parting words you want to share before leaving us today?

Market,market, market. Did I say market? Again, start before you publishthe book.

Developa strong social marketing platform. Writers must engage. Readers are on theInternet – on blogs, Twitter, Facebook, Goodreads and other networks – talkingabout books. If you’re visible, if they’ve heard of you, maybe they’ll talkabout your book. These networks are about community NOT self-promotion.Still, even if you can’t link social networking directly to sales, you’llbenefit from the support.

Mobilizeyour personal networks. A few months prior to publication, spread the news tofamily and friends, send your book to anyone who might be interested inreading; ask them to spread the word. A week or so before your pub date, askfamily and friends to post reviews on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Goodreads,etc.

If you can afford it, hire a publicist. She’llwork with you and support you, and you won’t feel so alone. Work hard with yourpublicist to promote your book. Most books sell very few copies. If you’re aname author or you received a hefty advance, your publisher will promote you.The rest of us, indie or traditionally published, receive little or no notice,so we must be proactive.

There are various types and levels of promotion,so you need not spend a fortune. If you can’t afford or don’t care to hire apublicist, do the work yourself. Create a website; build your social network,contact reviewers and bloggers; reach out to book clubs. Dollars & Sense: the definitive guideto self-publishing, released last week by the founders of the Indie BookCollective has already hit bestseller status! It’s no wonder – it’s an amazingbook with a wealth of actionable information.

Self-publishingwas a good choice for me. I don’t regret it. This is an exciting time forpublishing – with tremendous opportunity for writers. Whatever choice you make,whether you decide to self-publish or hold out for a traditional publishingcontract, hold onto your dream. You can make it happen! Don’t ever give up!

Whata great wealth of knowledge Terri shares. She is so good at ‘paying it forward’with other authors. Get out there and follow her on the web. Terri can befound online at: website Blog Twitter Facebook

The Start of the Ride

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Well Read Book Store Hawthorne, NJ

My journey has started down this road of publication and while I'll admit it is as much work as I was warned, I absolutely love what I'm doing. Actually writing the book is such a small fraction of the process. Getting people to read it, talk about it, and pass it on: that's the ride. I've started a blog tour which is a great way to get yourself out there to meet new people across the internet (and probably annoy my friends as well each time I post a new interview). As an author, you want people to get to know you - so I attempt to answer the questions in as best ways as I can (without repeating myself over and over). I am very lucky as an indie author to also be able to go into bookstores and do book signings. I don't take that lightly because I realize just how few authors actually get to experience it. I'm grateful to the stores that are hosting me and so appreciative of the people turning out.

Saturday I'm attending an all day conference in NYC for small publishers/self publishers: seeing what more I can learn from the other side. I've always been the type to research and learn as much as possible about any project I jump in to and I hope to gain some knowledge from the day. I still have one more week left to run spotlights on my blog of other authors who have made this trip before I did. I've learned so much from interviewing them this month and really appreciate their candid responses. The next two months are pretty full with signings, some radio interviews, and blog tours and as a good friend advised, I need to be sure and enjoy each moment as it's happening. Not simply rush through it.

Thank you to those readers who are reaching out to me to discuss WELL WITH MY SOUL after reading. I'm so happy it is touching people in such a way that they feel the need to talk to me about it. (One particular friend has become obsessed since finishing it and I have loved our talks about it.)

Please continue to share the word and I hope I don't annoy too much as I share my experience. It's very exciting for a debut novelist to get the opportunity to live this life. And thanks to social media: I can take others along on the ride with me.

Guest Blog: The Accidental Writer

2011-10-20T10:34:00.000-04:00

Today I am happy to welcome author David G. Hallman as a guest blogger. I met David on twitter earlier this summer and read his moving memoir August Farewell. David's debut novel Searching for Gilead is now also available. Take it away, David.

My current writing career is totally unexpected.

During my professional working life, I wrote five books mostof which were academic in nature and focused on my subject area ofenvironmental ethics. The one exception theme-wise was a book on AIDS that grewout of a 1989 international conference that I coordinated.

I took early retirement and looked forward to a more relaxedlifestyle from the previous thirty years much of which I had spent travelingaround the world involved in UN negotiations on climate change. I had nointention of doing further writing.

Then life, rather dramatically, intervened in my plans.

Bill, my partner, was suddenly diagnosed with stage fourpancreatic cancer. He died sixteen days after we received the diagnosis. We hadbeen together as a gay couple for thirty-three years.

About six weeks after Bill’s death, I found myself becomingexceeding anxious that I would forget the details of those excruciating twoweeks while he laying dying in our home. That journey was intense, profound,and spiritual. I became convinced that I needed to record it for myself so thatI could revisit it in years ahead – something like how we treasure photoalbums. If I forgot the details it felt to me like I would be losing Bill asecond time.

So I began writing a chronology of those sixteen days. As Idid, I kept being reminded of experiences that we had had together over ourthirty-three years together. I started integrating vignettes from our past intothe record of those August days. The memoir, August Farewell, was the result.

After completing it, I decided to share it with a few closefriends. They circulated it to others. I kept getting the same feedback fromeveryone who read it – I was told that our story could be a help to others whohave experienced the loss of a loved one as well as for people who would liketo learn more about a long-term gay relationship. My friends encouraged me topublish it.

I resisted the idea of publishing it. It felt too personal.Eventually, after a year of cajoling, my friends prevailed and I agreed.However, then I encountered a new dilemma. I could not imaging myself going tocommercial publishers trying to convince them that this was something that theyshould take on. That prospect felt disrespectful to Bill’s memory.

So I decided to go the self-publishing route with iUniverse– a very satisfying experience.

Though I now had the historical record of our life togetherand of Bill’s dying, my head and my heart were still roiling with unresolvedissues. In the three years prior to Bill’s death, four other immediate familymembers had died. Plus, I was now retired and looking back on a career much ofit spent engaged in international issues about which I had many questions.

I decided to continue writing as a way to think through themultitude of issues, personal and professional, that were consuming my head andmy heart. I plunged into the waters of fiction to see if through my imaginationI could write a story that would speak to my own preoccupations and perhapshave interest to others.

My experience with iUniverse and self-publishing had been sopositive, I decided to continue in that stream. After all, the novel Searching for Gilead was my firstattempt at fiction writing and I doubted any commercial publisher would haveinterest.

So this second career as a writer is indeed an accidental,unplanned one. Who knows where it will go. I certainly don’t.

For information onDavid’s books, consult his website or find him on twitter.

Author Spotlight: Tarek Refaat

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Tarek Refaat was recommended by a mutual twitter author friend and so Ibegan to follow him. It goes to show the power of twitter that can unite people inthe US with those in Egypt.

I really appreciateyou joining me on my blog. Can you tell me when you started writing?

I began to write at a very young age. I usedto like to have a pencil and a piece of paper with me to write what I’d see, butI began to realize I enjoy writing in my later teen years. I began to actuallythink of taking it seriously a bit after my mid-twenties. I've ventured intoseveral genres, especially that I write in Arabic & in English.

What genre do you write in?

I've written Comedy, Romance, Articles,Action adventure, historical fiction.

Did you go thetraditional route or indie?

Well I published my first book"Ruptured" (available now) via a traditional Publisher here in Egypt;however I am now checking for a more indie publishing approach.

What is it about an indie approach from that of your current traditional publishing house that interests you?

Well an indie approach keeps you more in control, because you are involved in every detail of the book (however sometimes that does worry me a bit). I already am an IT professional with a full time job, a family man, and doing my masters; so trying to keep everything on track is quite a draining process. But am sure others manage the process. Also it enlightens you on the very different aspects such as the book paper quality, book sizes , covers , etc. For myself, the difference in going indie would be I am more likely to penetrate the English reader major markets which are outside of Egypt such as the US and the UK (while I am physically here in Egypt). That may create another obstacle, but I also believe that can be overcome.

Are you a print oreBook kind of author?

My book is available both printed and e-books.Here in Egypt there are approximately 1000 copies printed.

How do you marketand promote your books?

Well my marketing and promotion are mostlycurrently ‘self made’. Since I am trying to give "Ruptured" moreexposure outside of Egypt via the e-books, I am mainly attempting to get toknow the writing communities, writers, readers and authors. Because of my firmbelief that reading is a matter of trust and this comes from good book reviewsand followers or word of mouth.

Is there somethingyou would have done differently or a ‘mantra’ you tell yourself?

Nothing specific, but not to let yourself getdepressed easily; getting a book out is a hectic process and it takes time!

Anything else youwould like to share with us?

I would just like to say that I have comeacross some great writers such as Evangelina Jo, Lorna Suzuki & PattiRoberts - they are very supportive writers and always try to help you out.People like that help you find your way! I'd like to take this opportunity tothank them for the support!

Author Spotlight: Renee Pawlish

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I first met Renee Pawlish when I came across herin an author forum on Facebook. She is the author of This Doesn't Happen In The Movies (Availableat Amazon and Smashwords) and NephilimGenesis of Evil (Now an ebook!)

Thankyou for coming over to my blog Renee! So when did you know you were a writer?

I've wanted to write sincehigh school, but I didn't really work hard at it until after grad school. I write mysteries, but Nephilim Genesisof Evil is kind of a mix of mystery, thriller, paranormal, and horror(although no blood, just good suspense and fear).

How did you go about getting published?

I've queried novels datingback to about 1995. I knew my writing was "good" when I startedto get rejection letters that said things like "this needs a bit of work,and if I had the time, I'd work with you", or for Nephilim "we likeit, we just can't see the market for it". It was at that point(2006) that I decided to self-publish Nephilim because I figured I could dojust as well selling it on my own, and maybe that would get me an agent (thatdidn't happen but I'm happy with the end result - I got great reviews and Iknow there's a market for what I write). I hired an editor for content, anotherfor grammar and spelling, an artist for the cover, and used 48 Hour Books inOhio to print the books. I had two print runs for Nephilim and it soldquite well; I only have a few books left that I kept for myself. I then did thesame for a non-fiction book called TheSallie House: Exposing the Beast Within, about a haunted houseinvestigation in Kansas. It's sold moderately well and I plan to releaseit in ebook form. Last year I started reading about Amanda Hocking and JAKonrath and I decided that I should jump on the ebook bandwagon. And hereI am, hocking (no pun intended lol) my books to the digital world. It'sbeen great because Nephilim is now getting a new lease on life, plus I'mreleasing my mysteries and some short stories.

Youmade really great points there about hiring ‘a team’ to work on your books. Speakingof – what do you have out or coming out?
Nephilim came out as a trade paperback in2007. It is now available as an ebook, and will soon be available againas a trade paperback through CreateSpace. The Sallie House is a tradepaperback, available at Amazon and through my website. It will also be an ebooksoon. This Doesn't Happen In TheMovies is an ebook, but will soon be available as a trade paperback. Thesecond in the series, tentatively titled ReelEstate Rip-off, will be an ebook later this month, and a short storycollection called Take Five will beavailable as an ebook in a week or so.

Sounds like you are really getting thewhole ‘ebook’ thing! That’s great. What’s your overall experience withpublishing?

The publishing side ofthings can be tedious, and at times frustrating, especially with formatting inMicrosoft Word. But I also get a kick out of seeing a book go from wordson the computer to an actual book that people can read and enjoy. It'salso been fun working on book covers and trying to make the essence of the bookappear in the cover.

Now the dreaded “M word.” Tell us aboutmarketing.

Marketing is hard, and Iharken to JA Konrath's advice. I may be misquoting a bit, but heessentially said when he started out that he wrote about 30% of the time andmarketed about 70% of the time. I would have to agree with him. It'stime-consuming to market, but as an author, you can't just expect the readersto come to you - you have to find them and build the word of mouth.

Doyou see a huge significance in social media?
Social media is crucialin this process. I primarily use Twitter, a Facebook fan page (I believeevery author should have one) and a blog, along with my website, topromote. I also look for interviews and guest-blogging opportunities toget my name out there. My books consistently get great reviews, but thatdoesn't mean the readers are going to flock to me. I have to tell themabout the books.

I see your name everywhere – so I thinkyou’re doing a great job at it! Any advice for others?

Keep at it. For manyyears, my writing would ebb and flow, and I wished I would've just kept writingno matter what. Also, I can't stress this enough, authors need to takecreative writing classes, or read books on writing, go to conferences and soon, to learn their craft. Don't assume that your work is automaticallygood just because your spouse, friend, mother, father, or whoever, said it was.

Doyou see any downfall to the rush of authors hitting the ebook market?
I just read reviewsabout an author who had comments for "a great concept" but all thereviews (all of them, I'm not exaggerating) said that the author needed to workon her writing. This to me is a perfect example of someone who is takingadvantage of the new ebook revolution and publishing too soon, before she honedher writing skills. This can hurt other indie authors as it continues thestigma that indie authors aren't good.

I’m really glad you joined me today. Anylast words?

Be willing to spend alittle money on your writing career. Learn about marketing, get a greateditor, pay for great covers, and so on. If you want your books to sell,make sure you've put a quality product out there.

Check out more information on Renee at her website.

And the winner is...

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One of the great things about the indie community of writers is meeting other authors through contests and forums. I recently participated in a cover design contest and UK author Daniel A. Kaine won for his great cover for Dawn of Darkness which is due out as an eBook on the 22nd of this month (and check out the giveaway going on over at goodreads.com).

I agree that the cover is a really captivating and plays well into the blurb on the book: Unburdened by the pain of loss and heartbreak, Mikhail is content with his life of solitude. But everything began to change the day he realised he has a psychic ability -- the power to alter the emotions of those around him.

In reading Daniel's bio on his website, I see him as an exciting group of young authors who will tackle many genres. While he says he currently writes books with homosexual themes, he wants to branch out beyond that. I completely understand that thinking, Daniel, as I too wish to be thought of as someone who simply writes: no matter what the subject matter may be about. Authors should be given the chance to branch out into all sorts of genres and no longer be pegged as one type of writer. I really hope that Mr. Kaine's generation of writers is able to break that mold that has been part of the writing world for so long.

I personally wish Daniel all the best with his book release and hope that readers of this blog will give it a try. (Check out his trailer here.)

Author Spotlight: David Corbet

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David Corbet(1972-present) was born in Idaho but raised in Northern California. Hegraduated from Point Loma Nazarene University with a B.A. in Philosophy andReligion in 1996 and from George Fox University in 2001 with a Master of Artsin Theological Studies. He returned to Idaho in 2004 when he began writing andpainting as modes to express his interior life. His first book of poems "AYear in the Mountains" reflects his emotional state as he transitions froma city life to a mountain life. His second book is an action novel titled“Memoirs of a Super Criminal.” He currently resides in a mid-sized city inSoutheastern Idaho.

David – welcome to my blog! Tell me when you started yourcareer as a writer?

The first novel Ifinished was in 2002 or 2003. I had written a few short stories and non-fictionpieces but nothing published. I returned to writing as a serious pursuit in2010. I read a lot of science fiction and fantasy so I tend to place my storiesin that genre. I have been playing around with the idea of writing somethingoutside of my normal bounds but so far have not carried the idea very far.

What different routes did you try as far as publishing?

I tried getting my firstnovel published. I did not work all that hard at it though. Life takes its owncourse and at that time I did not have a lot of emotional energy to invest in“putting myself out there.” After a few rejection notices I just let it slideaway. Not that I gave up, just tabled it for a while until I could find theplace and time to return to it.

When did your first book come out? How many do you have outthere? Are your books in print, eBook or both?

I have two books that Ihave self published through various e-book providers. My first book, One Year in the Mountains, came out inJuly 2011. It is a collection of poems that I had written and edited ready forpublication. It was just sitting on my hard drive doing nothing. When I decidedto self publish as an e-publisher/author I wanted to do a test run of thee-publishing systems, so I used my book of poems. Poems are not that hot of aseller so I did not have many expectations I just wanted to familiarize myselfwith the whole publishing and promotion aspects so when my novel was ready Icould be more efficient. To my surprise my book of poems has sold better thanmy novel.

Wow! That is really amazing to hear how well the poetry did!What about your second book?

Memoirs of a Super Criminal came out in September2011. I learned a lot when I published my poems. The second time through wasmuch smoother. Each system has different formatting and stylistic requirements.That takes some practice perfecting. The learning curve on e-publishing is justas hard as anything else. It is not just a click of a button and you are done.

What has your experience been like on the publishing side ofthings?

E-publishing is very differentfrom traditional publishing. Traditional publishing you send out manuscriptafter manuscript hoping it will get read and then liked and then responded tofavorably. With e-publishing it is just a grueling task of formatting andreformatting your book to be accepted by the e-book providers. There is a lotless anxiety but a lot more frustration with e-book publishing. Amazon, Barnesand Nobles, Smashwords all require different formatting (although Smashwords isthe worst and Amazon the easiest. If you have it Smashwords ready then you areready for anything). Of course publishing a book of poems that requires specialformatting because of the verses set up instead of prose did not help my firstventure. I learned a lot and that made the second time through all that mucheasier.

How important is social media to your marketing process?

For me, social media hasbeen my only tool for promotion. That is probably not the best route to take,but it is the one I am on. When you self publish all promo and marketing is upto you. If I had hardcopies of my book I would be out pounding the pavementtrying to get book signing and bookstores to carry my title. But with e-booksit is very different. Word of mouth goes a lot further. And social media is allabout spreading the word of mouth. I twitter, facebook, Google +, run two blogsand do as much online networking as I can. But I also work a day job so I amlimited to how much I can do. And there is a fine line between spamming andself promotion. Certainly my facebook friends want to hear more about my lifethan where to buy my book.

And there is somethingsafe about social media promotion and marketing. I happened into a bookstorelast month when an author was sitting at a table doing a book signing. No onewas there to buy her book or ask her questions. Those kinds of events can ruinyou (finally feeling bad for her I bought a book and asked some questions). Buton the computer you are protected, sheltered through the screen. You don’t seeall the people trying hard to ignore you as they walk by the table.

That is a really interesting way to see it. (We’ve allnoticed those authors waiting at the table with pen in hand.) Having spent timeat it now, is there anything you would have done different? Something you wouldwarn someone starting out now to stay clear of?

The only thing I wouldhave done different is to not have taken a seven-year hiatus from writing.Write because you love to write. Publish because you need to make money. If youare going the traditional route, edit and polish your book everyday. Read itout loud to yourself every week. And don’t let rejection notices knock youdown. Don’t even take them seriously until you have at least a hundred. If youare going to self publish in hardback or e-book get ready to self promote.Start now building your network, it takes time and there is much to learn aboutall the available social media sites. Get to know them and learn how to usethem. One warning: Don’t pay anyone anything unless they are giving you validservice. Research the company or individual before giving them a dime. Desperateauthors make for easy targets.

Good advice! So many authors are so eager – money gets spentquickly. Anything else you would like to share?

Have fun and don’t thinkyou are going to get rich over night. Self promotion is not like signing with apublishing house with their sign on bonuses and royalty checks. Self promotionand e-publishing means selling a few books a week until you have a big enoughfollowing that others catch on, that can take years. Have thick skin,confidence in you ability and your book, and most of all have fun telling goodstories.

More information about David can be found at: http://daav-aotm.blogspot.com/ or https://dlcorb.wordpress.com/

Live Theater is Magic!

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As a stage director, I have tried many different approaches to directing. Sometimes treating the work like a movie with a musical underscoring to scenes to evoke a certain response from an audience. I have now seen a work that displays such mastery at doing this, I was completely blown away. Marianne Elliott and Tom Morris have co-directed War Horse on Broadway and what an amazing evening it is.

Sometimes words simply cannot describe what live theater can accomplish. But this one is the most 'cinematographic' experience I've ever witnessed on stage. The use of music, projections, moving stages - all adds to the wonder of this production.

What Julie Taymor has given us with puppets in the 90s has been extended far beyond anything I thought I could see with the people behind the Handspring Puppet Company and Toby Sedgwick's direction of the horses. There is such life and breath in the horses that you stop watching the puppeteers and I found myself looking deep into Joey's (the horse) eyes. The sounds of the hoofs on the stage as well as sounds of the horses themselves: all amazing. (And puppetry plays out in other ways in this stage play that I won't even share here; but just know the stage pictures are stunning!)

Based on a novel by Michael Morpurgo - the story has all that is right with those stories that tug at the heart strings. Like Fern and Wilbur, Sounder and his owner, or even the Free Willy series: the story of this boy and the love of his horse is a moving one that truly got to me. I did not notice that I had sat there for over 2 and a half hours. You are pulled into this story and the artistry of the stagecraft so much - you forget all time. I cannot recommend this enough if you are visiting New York. Theater should be about magic: and this Tony Award winning play delivers it in more ways than I can state in this blog.

Foster Care Gave Us a Gift

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Anderson's new daytime talk show is filled with many different topics from stories/interviews of stars to everyday people. I had the pleasure of being in the audience for one of those when a family came on and shared their wonderful story of how they opened up their home to many children when they became a foster family. And in some cases, even adopted some of the kids as well. They have become an inspiration to their neighborhood with many families opening their doors to children as well.

According to childwelfare.gov, as of two years ago, there were half a million children in the foster care system in the U.S. - all waiting for placement in a loving home. Those numbers break my heart as those kids are caught in an environment (due to their parents) that they must be pulled out of and put somewhere else.

Back in the 80s, my parents decided to become a foster family and spoke to my sister and I about it. We took in three different boys and at first...I'll admit it was hard on me as I had always been the baby of the family. But I quickly grew to enjoying having younger boys around to play with. We got one when he was not quite two years old. He couldn't speak well (because we quickly learned he couldn't hear and needed tubes in his ears) and the little guy had a temper that was actually pretty darn cute. Something unusual happened in that situation - as people were told back then that most foster children end back up with their parents (the other two had). But this little boy entered the adoption system and the case worker told my parents it was happening. He had lived with us for over a year and my parents came to my sister and I about us adopting. At that point, he was my little brother and there was no other answer: he was our family and we had to adopt. And we did.

Donovan visiting school in Texas.

Though ten years separate us and I moved away when he was only 8 years old, I could not be more proud of him if he were my flesh and blood. He grew up to be an incredible man who is now serving his country on a 2nd tour of duty overseas and was recently promoted to a Sergeant in the army. Foster care and adoption seemed to do 'right' by him. I only hope there are many more children just like him that get that chance to go on in life to show how productive they can be. Thank you to the loving family that Anderson Cooper introduced us to and thank you to my little brother for making me a proud big brother.

Now I just can't wait for him to return from Afghanistan.

Author Spotlight: Lia Fairchild

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Lia Fairchild is a nativeCalifornian who loves reading, writing, movies, and anything else related tothe arts. She holds a B.A. degree in Journalism and a Multiple Subject TeachingCredential. She says her most enjoyable moments are spent with her family,traveling, spending time outdoors, or simply laughing and being together.

Lia,thanks for joining my blog today. Can you tell us about your history inwriting?

Creativity has always beena part of my life. Growing up I loved to read, write, draw, paint, and justcome up with different ideas for whatever I was doing. But, I always followedthe traditional path when it came to jobs. Then, I turned forty and realizedthat I needed to do something that was just for me before I looked back on mylife and regretted not doing it. So, I set out to write my first novel, In Search of Lucy. It was one of thosesituations you hear where an author says the story just came to them. I alwayshad ideas for books and movies swirling around in my head. But when this onecame along, I knew I had to write it. I call it a romantic drama.

Whatwas your path to publication?

Everything happened so fastthat I didn’t have time to seek out traditional options. When my book firstappeared on Amazon, B&N, etc., I quickly learned I had some seriouscatching up to do. I knew nothing about the business of marketing and sellingbooks and it hit me hard that my book was just sitting there waiting.

It’shard when we realize the books aren’t going to sell themselves. What books doyou have out there now?

In Search of Lucy was made available in February of 2011.Then, I immediately started work on a second novel. One of the first things youlearn is to keep writing. But, while writing that second novel, an idea came tome that I just couldn’t ignore. I decided I wanted to do something a bit morefun and mysterious. I always loved old fashioned mysteries and wanted to createsomething like an Alfred Hitchcock miniseries. The result was a series of shortstories called A Hint of Murder. There are two so far that can be read asstand alones but feature reoccurring characters. (I’m actually running a promoright now for a free download of that story…see my blog for details!) All of myworks are available as ebooks on various sites, but In Search of Lucy is available in paperback as well.

Whathas your experience been like on the publishing side of things?

Most platforms are veryeasy to use once you get the basic idea. Amazon is especially easy to navigateand the representatives are quick to respond. Things at Barnes and Noble seemto run a bit slower and issues take a while to get addressed. Smashwords hasbeen great for discounts, freebies and review copies, but tough to reach theaverage reader.

You’veobviously caught up on the business side now. How do you handle marketing?

The first thing I did when“Lucy” came out was start joining Facebook groups and create a Twitter account.I learned quickly that forming relationships online was the key to getting yourbook noticed. I started doing interviews, seeking reviews, participating indiscussions and building an online presence. The more places you are, the morepeople you meet, the more you can make your work visible. Currently Icontribute to three blogs (2 are mine), have three fanpages, a main website, atwitter account, and participate in at least one dozen Facebook groups forreaders and writers. In addition I’m a Goodreads member along with a few other membersites I’m just getting started on. As you can see, I have a little troublesaying “no.”

Whatkind of advice can you give for someone starting down the indie path?

Two pieces of advice.First, start your marketing and online presence while you are writing. Thejourney should be a marathon, not a race. But, once your book is out there youwill feel the pressure fast and try to catch up with the masses. If you get a headstart now, then announcing your book will be more fun than stressful. You’llalready have an audience to share with. Second, I learned the hard way to letthings go. There are some bitter people out there that don’t mind lashing outat Indie Authors. Let them fall by the wayside and move on to better things.

Thanks so much for the information today! Any otherpearls of wisdom before you go?

Be very careful aboutchoosing your price. It was tough for me because I felt so strongly that myfull-length novel deserved a higher price. You pour your heart and soul intosomething and you want proper compensation. But authors are very tempted tolower and even go to 99 cents just to get noticed. I’m not saying any certainprice is better. Just make sure you do some research and maybe test it outbefore you pick a price and then stick with it for a while.

Lia can be reached at her website, blog, twitter, or facebook.

It's the Day of the Show, Ya'll!

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Official release day. (Official Press Release)

It's as if I expect everyone to view the day through the same eyes I'm seeing it through (yet I live in reality and I know that is completely nuts). But still...do trumpets blare? Are there skywriters up above telling everyone the day has arrived? Or does the day start as it has every year since 1988 when National Coming Out Day was founded? (Ironically, I came out in the summer of '88 to my family as well.) Does it start with me calling one of my dearest friends who celebrates her birthday and each year we tease her that her birthday is on NCOD?

I feel as if I've waited for this day to arrive...well...for the past five years when I first started writing this book as a play. It's been out (un-officially) a few weeks and while I've received feedback - it still feels like an opening night of a show I'm directing. That's how I compare it because of my years in theater. Opening that velvet rope to let people into the studio, (to use a reference from my book) but no one gets left out here: all are welcome in! Only this show goes on all day...and then the next and next. This show will continue as people get the book, tell others about it and hopefully start conversations about the issues that are raised in the book.

Thank you to those that use today to buy the book! Thank you to those that have been so supportive of me for so long (and all those new supporters too)! Thank you to those that will spread the word and help me make this book (and this day) a memorable one for years to come.

And to Donna: Happy birthday! Tell your friends (gay and straight) to come out of the closet and purchase WELL WITH MY SOUL. :-)

Author Spotlight: Michael R. Hicks

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One day before I officially join the authors I've been highlighting this month as a published author and I wanted to continue talking to those that have walked the walk for a while now. I started following Michael on twitter about five months ago (when I first went on twitter) and I saw a passion and drive in him that I was instantly drawn to. After talking with him, I now see why that passion is there.

Michael, I'm so glad you could join me the week of my book launch to share your story. Can you start with telling us about the genre you write in?

With the IN HER NAME series, myoriginal books, the genre was science fiction, albeit with a very heavy dose offantasy thrown in. SEASON OF THE HARVEST was a thriller with a sci-fi twist,and I've got book projects lined up that hit both of those genres, and others(such as young adult), as well. I'm not trying to consciously diversify, butthose are the directions the story ideas are taking me, and I don't see theneed to pigeon-hole myself.

When did you seriously know writing was what you wanted to do?

I originally wrote IN HERNAME back in the early 1990s but, not surprisingly, it didn't get picked up byany publishers. To be honest, I didn't pound the pavement too hard, becausewriting the book was something that had been great fun and also a bit oftherapy for when I was having a few rough times in life.

Even when I self-published thebook in 2008, I didn't expect to make a living from it. I sold three copies thefirst month and was ecstatic! But it was only this year, when SEASON OF THEHARVEST took off in February, that I really started thinking of writing as acareer. And in August I left my day job to write full-time.

Wow! That is great to see someone with the passionto leave the day job. So you did try the traditional route first?

I shopped the manuscript for INHER NAME around, but didn't have any takers. And back then, you really only hadtwo options to get published: get picked up by a "real" publisher, orpay a vanity press to print your books and sell them on your own, which Iwasn't about to do. So the book sat under my deskfor 14 years in a box that I used as a footrest until I learned about Kindlepublishing in 2007. I then published it on other ebook platforms as theyemerged, and printed the books through CreateSpace andLightning Source. Looking back, I'm glad thingsturned out the way they did, because I'm probably making a much better livingas a self-published author than I would having gone the legacy route.

How many do you have out there? Are your books inprint, eBook or both?

I've currently got eight books(including a self-publishing guide) published. All of my fiction books are orwill be available in print, and I'm just about to publish the ninth book, whichis the sixth of the IN HER NAME series.

Can you talk to about the business side of publishing?

Like anything else - it hasits ups and downs, its joys and frustrations. I guess the one thing thatprobably gets many self-published authors is that when you go this route,you're first and foremost a business person. You have to learn about marketing,money management from a business perspective, tax issues (businesses have a LOTof tax advantages), and so on - and you have to do it all yourself or bewilling and able to pay other folks to do it for you.

And then there are the thingsspecific to publishing that you have to handle: finding good people to edityour work (note: a book that's only been edited by the author hasn't beenedited at all), doing the cover art, formatting the book for both ebook -multiple formats - and print, and understanding the various back-end interfacesfor the different publishing platforms.

How important is social media to you?

For me, social media has beenEVERYTHING. Twitter, in particular, has been my gold mine. Without Twitter, andwithout learning the things I did before I published SEASON OF THE HARVEST, wewouldn't be having this interview. Facebook has certainly helped, but the bulkof my fan base has been built on Twitter. Yes, I've tried other things,from local book signings to paid ads, but by and large those have been a wasteof time and money for me, and I've had a couple of other businesses in the pastand had similar results. Social media has the advantageof reach and leverage, as well as the ability to search for folks who haveinterests that might match up well with your books. I can potentially reachmillions of people through social media. You just couldn't do that beforeunless you were backed by a publisher willing to fork out huge amounts of cashfor a massive advertising campaign (which isn't going to happen for most newauthors). With social media, the trick islearning how to do it effectively, and then putting the necessary time into it.And that, the time investment, is where most folks fall down, especially withTwitter. You've got to be on there every day, intermittently throughout theday, and you have to really interact with people and not just spam them or itwon't work for you.

You share some really great tips there on socialmedia. Any other advice you would give?

Well, if I could give advice tomyself back when I started, here are the things I'd say: If you enjoy writing, writeevery chance you get and don't stop. Start a program ofself-improvement. Read books on business, writing, changing your mindset. I always recommend folks start with The Slight Edge, by Jeff Olson, andJoe Konrath's book, a Newbie's Guide to Publishing. Learn to leave your ego at thedoor. Find someone who can really tear your writing apart and expose its flaws.Learn to love the red ink, because that's what will make you a better writer. (Someone telling you how good you are does nothing to improve your craft.) A lot of folks aspire to get to where I'm at (writing full-time) just like Joe Konrath and some other authors were my inspiration. But it's not easy: for me, it means long hours, working seven days a week, and a considerable amount of stress over the market. I combat that stress by writing more, because an author's real safety net is the number of titles he or she has out on the virtual (or real) bookshelves. Understand that success isn't going to comeovernight. It's like saving money in a bank. You put away as much as you canand let the interest compound over time. Today it's only a few bucks. In time,it will become a fortune. The first month IN HER NAME waspublished, I maybe made $9 or so. In July, the best month so far this year,that one book (the omnibus version) brought in over $12,000. But it took meseven years to get there. Last but not least, don't giveup. Things aren't always going to go as well as you'd like. Keep writing, keeppromoting. If my family and I have to eat peanut butter for a while, then so beit, because I know we'll make out okay in the long run.

I've had the opportunity to meeta lot of interesting folks and have been having a great time. It's not easy, but when you're doing something you love,"work" is no longer a four-letter word!

I really appreciate you joining us and sharingjust how hard it can be for a self-published author.

Michael R. Hicks. Author,RVer, and wearer of FiveFinger shoes.
Web: AuthorMichaelHicks.com Email: Contact Page Twitter: KreelanWarrior

How to React as Day Approaches

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Well Read Books Hawthorne, NJ

I am just a few days out from my official book launch and I am a mix of emotions. Each new milestone that occurs puts a huge smile on my face. From the moment the writing part was done to when the design took off - it has been a whirlwind. I recall holding the book for the first time in my hands (which now seems so long ago) to getting in those first reviews. Hearing back from bookstores and other places that wanted to host a book signing event made me giddy with glee that people were interested in my story. And last night, seeing a photo online of one of those stores and the display they had of my books somehow made it all feel real. This week will be the big attempt to get people to switch from asking about the book to purchasing the book and then celebrating the entire process on Thursday night at The Stonewall Inn in NYC. I feel blessed to have so much support by so many people. I feel a sense of "I did it!" - whatever 'it' may be. And I feel nervous as the baby makes its way into the world.

I've been doing several interviews lately and really thinking about what I'm drawn towards in reading and writing. It truly goes back to even my days of directing and producing. I like to give the unexpected and not the tried and true. A protagonist must do X....a story must always finish with Y.

I can't write that way.

Nor have I ever directed or produced that way for the stage. I directed the French-themed musical La Cage Aux Folles and set it in The French Quarters of New Orleans, I Do! I Do! covers 50 years of marriage and I moved it to start in the 40s instead of the late 1800s and my vision of directing Kiss of the Spider Woman was more of a prison like guantanamo bay.

I suppose my vision of religion and sexuality will really show themselves in Well With My Soul. Some will be angry. Some will be moved. Some will toss the book aside. But that's what art is all about. Making people think.

I hope you enjoy the journey as you read my book.

I wanted to end this blog with a few links to some of those interviews I've been doing. So people can get inside of my head just a little more as those asking the questions were so skillful at doing.

Sole Focus

The Art & Craft of Writing Creatively

Next Magazine

Morgen Bailey's Writing Blog

Back of the Book Reviews

Great Minds Think Aloud

Author Spotlight: Belo Cipriani

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I met Belo around the time I was getting onto twitter early this past summer. And I was so glad I did after reading his inspiring memoir. Belo Cipriani is aLambda Fellow, Literary Death Match Champion, and the author of Blind: A Memoir. His writing hasappeared in INSIDEPRIDE, The Bohemian, Wiredlatinos.com, Sopalatina.com,Lighthouse Monthly and quarterly. Belo has been featured in the SF Chronicle,SF Examiner, San Jose Mercury News, Univision, Compete Magazine andwas the keynote speaker for the A.D.A celebration 2011 in San Francisco,Belo continues to speak in diversity and inclusion panels for nationalorganizations.

Belo, so glad you could join us heretoday. Tell us when you started writing.

As a teen, I kept a journaland dabbed into short fiction. However, once I began to explorewriting careers, I was quickly discouraged by teachers and lack ofpublished gay authors in the 90's. I put writing onice and focused on my corporate career until I becameblind. When I lost my sight, I sought empathy and understandingin literature and was disappointed by the scarce andinaccurate representations of the blind. There were only a hand fullof memoirs about adults losing vision and in fiction, the blind weredualistically de-eroticized and romanticized; annoyed, I decided towrite a book that gave a more contemporary glimpse into blindness.

You have such a unique story to share;did you try different routes to get the book published?

I landed my first agent while still in my graduatewriting program, but that fell apart after a few months. I tried thetraditional publishing route first and landed an agent three weeks after myfirst mailing of query letters. The strong response I received fromagents gave me the confidence I needed to later pursue Indie options. Mydecision was solely based on the fact that I would not have an audio bookunless I became a bestseller. I could not stomach having a book about blindnessand not have it in an accessible format.

When did your book come out and howcan people find it?

Blind: A Memoirwas published May 2011 by Wheatmark and is available in paperback, eBook, MP3download, flash drive, audio disc, DAIS (digital access information system),and Braille. It can be purchased through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Powell's, Audible,iTunes, Sony, and local Indy bookstores. It is distributed through Ingramin the USA and Bertram in the UK.

What has your experience been likeon the publishing side of things?

I have had a few wins and losses; I faced challengesin finding a website design firm and even had a guy take money for work henever completed. Many long hours of online research lead to find the peoplewho brought my book to fruition. Author Marketing Experts handles all ofmy PR efforts; Monkey C Media handles website, business cards, bookmarksand designed my cover. Wheatmark, My publisher, even altered their publishingprocess so that my technology worked and I wouldn't be left out of theprocess.

I love that Wheatmark found ways towork with you on the process. Anything else you would like us to know?

I didface some challenges, but it was through those challenges that I learned tonavigate the Indy experience. I would advise anyone to ask for references fromanyone they initiate business with and spend time calling those references.

Thank you so much for joining us,Belo! Learn more at his website or follow him on twitter.